i hate him
By ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
Malaysia
November 27, 2012 5:11am CST
u just know him a couple of month, he ask me to be serious in our relation.
make a step forward from just a friend to more serious .
after a few week, i just feel not right. something is wrong with him.
so, i search more about him. google his name. before this i was not thinking of this action.
searching and searching, i now, that he not being so serious.
he also make promise to other girl same promise to me.
i really don't have any good luck in relationship.
maybe i just wait for the one for me. stop looking for him. wait for him.
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23 responses
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
27 Nov 12
Yes they say it is like that, when you get tired of searching you stop for awhile maybe he just right there in front of you or beside you. Or maybe along the way, you have met but you were too busy searching so you did not see and you missed. I don't know if this is true but it is quite logical for me.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
28 Nov 12
See, that's nice to know and I love princess finding her prince charming on the way. whewww. so nice
@BethelSophia (538)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
I'm sorry to hear about it. But, I think that man is not blessed to find a genuine relationship not unless he will stop his wrong doings. I am pretty sure that there is a man for you. Yah, right just don't search him for he'll be the one to find you. He's on his way to meet you searching about you. Soon, you will see each other and share the love that comes from Above.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Nov 12
One way to attract the right person for you is to become the person you think that person would want. Think about this, the law of attraction, by wishing, wanting and hunting for someone you use all your energy and you are pushing so hard the ones you want to attract are pushed away. Think instead about your self and your goals. Start to develope those goals by working toward them. You will be surprised how well this works you will attract people you can admire and like, sooner or later a special relationship will evolve. A relationship should never be a fight, it should be more like a puzzle, pieces falling into place and you will know it's right for both of you. Have no fear of being alone, each situation in life brings its' own rewards. Relax and enjoy each phase of life, it goes to quickly and you don't want to miss it by reaching for the future. Blessings
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
27 Nov 12
That's the main reason I always advice young girls think twice before taking any step like what you have done. But I appreciate your action since you realized the fact about the boy. Have a patient and I am sure one day some one will come in your life who will be making lots of love on you.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
It's not that you have no luck in relationships. It;s just that you haven't met the right match for you. This is what I was telling myself too. Being heartbroken brings such heaviness. It takes some time before we finally forget and be numb with the pain, just continue hoping that one day the right guy will come in front of you. The moment you know it he's already yours and you both are living a happy life. I wish the same for me too
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@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
Im so sorry to hear that. At least you discover his true colors as early. You have to stop for a while and let your heart rest and yourself from searching. Sometimes love will find us and it will come when you less expected it. It will come in the right time!. Just wait for the love to come.
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@shaggin (72238)
• United States
28 Nov 12
Aww I am so sorry to hear that you must feel very sad. Was this a person that you knew in person or just someone that you were chatting with online? I would be leary of anyone that I just talk to online and havent met in person what their intentions might be. I hope you find someone who will truly love and cherish you.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
i know him online.
i plan to meet him soon.
but lately i feel something wrong with him.
so i talk to my friend.
she ask me to search about him.
so, i find there is something he did not tell me.
even i add one off his friend on facebook, chat with that girl.
that girl tell me what that guy told her same as he told me.
that why i felt really angry and sad
@marguicha (223770)
• Chile
29 Nov 12
I am so sorry! From what you tell, this man is not good for you at all. But you were really lucky to discover this now and not later, when you were more involved with him. It is true that it will hurt you now, but it is not as if you had commited yourself to him. Cheer up and, little by little, move on. You deserve it.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 Nov 12
I'm sorry to hear that he has been dishonest with you. That you have found out about things you don't like. We often feel frustrated and angry when we find out someone has lied or hasn't been completely honest with us. It makes us feel very upset. Yeah it is a good idea to wait. Enjoy your singleness because before you know it you could be in a relationship for the rest of your life. Time really does go by so fast.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
19 Dec 12
I hope that things have improved for you. That you are able to find enjoyment in life until you are able to have a good relationship. Even good relationships will have there ups and downs. So it is really best that we know how to be happy before we try and expect others to make us happy. Otherwise we will be really disappointed.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
28 Nov 12
I hate such guy too. Many friends have told me such bad guys. So before you receieve a guy, make sure that he loves you.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Do not feel so disgusted about what had happened with the guy that once you been offered your time and love with. He not is the lucky guy for you I guess. You must cheer up. Go and improve yourself. Make yourself more pretty. Go out and have some fun with friends. You don't deserve that guy anyway. Someone good guy will come on your way. Do not lose hope.
@jamieclavero (187)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
no. you are not unlucky. it is just that you are not meant to be with this guy. someday you will thank him for leaving you after you have found someone better. TRUST in the Lord for he never fails. everything happens for a reason. you desrve someone better.
@apoota888 (51)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Nov 12
I'm so sorry to hear that you made that discovery but I'm also glad that you did discover the real truth about him. Good now rather than later. Don't fret about not having good luck in relationship. Maybe it was not the right time with the right man. Pray to God for intervention and He will help you out. Best of luck to you!
@thedataminer (515)
• United States
28 Nov 12
There's this TV show called "Tough Love" where this matchmaker finds a romantic interest for a group of women. One time on the show he told one, or all, that you have to try dating different men to find the right one for you. I don't know about waiting because you might never meet someone that way. You keep an open view and when opportunity knocks you take a chance. I think a good way to meet a nice man would be to do video chatting. I've not done this myself but I've thought about it.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
That should be the right attitude. You should not rush into having a relationship. It takes time to build a good foundation for a relationship. The right person will come at the right time.
@nelerkz (467)
• Philippines
28 Nov 12
Oh that guy is a big liar. But now, all you have to do is just to wait because waiting is the optimum way and God has a good one to prepare something for you which is faithful and loyal ! Have a great day !! :)
@bhelle76 (353)
• Canada
27 Nov 12
Maybe this is not the right time for you and he is not a guy for you. Be patient and you will see in the future. God will guide you, ask His guidance and you will find a right one. Capable for a serious relationship that will leads for the rest of your life.
@gilenie (190)
•
27 Nov 12
I cant blame you to hate him, but just be thankful at early stage you able to know his true color, many guys are like them, but don't ever loose hope in time you be able to meet the one for you, have faith, pray well that soon it will be given...
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
27 Nov 12
let him go, and don't be sad if ever, because you will loose a person who doesn't love you anyway, but he will loose a person who loves him.