There are songs you listen when you are very sad and in the mood of crying?
By spicymary
@spicymary (558)
Romania
November 28, 2012 9:11am CST
Do you choose than songs that will lift up your mood, like energetic music or something like this? Or do you prefer really depressing songs, in order to suits your disposition? What are your favorite songs that accompanies you in the bad moments?
I can say that when I am sad, I can listen only sad music, maybe to feel understanded, that I am not the only one. I listened Shakira's "Don't bother" so many times when I was in a bad mood because of love failures.
6 responses
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
I can relate to this. Yes there are songs that when you feel down, it makes you tear up most especially songs that are mellow and songs that has strong and deep lyrics with it such as break up songs, or songs that relates in what you are feeling regardless it’s genre.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
1 Dec 12
I felt about some songs that they were created especially for me. And about artists that we are very similar souls because we understand the same from life. It's frustrating to know that you are not the only "soulmate" of that artist, and that all the fans feel the same way. :))
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
agree, it's in a way communicating to us with every lyrics and melody the artist sang out. thanks for your discussion.
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
1 Dec 12
I do not want to cry and feel any negative vibration inside of me and so, I choose song that would not remind me of negative situations or I don't want to feel bad. Yes, I was hurt and depress, and I would accept the fact that I was hurt and that's it and then, after that, I want to work out what I feel. I don't want to stay depress or being sad forever and so, the best thing to do is to listen an energetic music because days go by, we wouldn't know that we've already forgotten the bad experience in our life. It means that we've already move forward.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
1 Dec 12
Can't become worst to not express your feelings and try to forget them and replace them? I'm curious, because I can't do what you say (I have to feel all until the bottom of it, I intensify the feeling to make it disappair) and I would like to know if your method works. If the bad mood doesn't come up again, stronger than before.
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
1 Dec 12
I often heard about the cathartic role of rock music. I also enjoy it (except heavy metal that had sounds which are too extremme for my years).
@margies (128)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 12
When i'm sad , i will play some sad songs that can describe my feeling. I usually play songs like:
- Someone like you (Adele)
- I don't wanna miss a thing (Aerosmith)
- So far away (Avenged Sevenfold)
- Wish you were here (Avril Lavigne)
- Dear God (Avenged Sevenfold)
- Last time (Secondhand Serenade)
@zurichann (235)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Whenever I'm sad or depressed, I would normally listen to inspiring songs. This doesn't just help me set my mood but sometimes it also helps me understand the reason why things has to happen. I will normally feels shivering after listening to the right music.
