Being A Widow, is it a matter or not?
By margies
@margies (128)
Indonesia
November 28, 2012 5:01pm CST
is it a matter , if you guys, have a girlfriend who has married before and get divorced and she has child too? Can you received her past? And take her as who she is. Or maybe you don't want to get serious relation? My friends ask me about that, but maybe my answered isn't make her satisfied. The status of widow make my friend became protective with herself. She's afraid that the guys have a sincere or not
2 responses
@jamieclavero (187)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
being a widow is not a big deal. everyone has the right to live their life the way they want in order to satisfy their needs and to be happy. just be yourself. dont let the past ruin your future hapiness
@jamieclavero (187)
• Philippines
30 Nov 12
you are welcome. i hope for the best. everything will be fine soon.. just have faith
@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I was a bit confused with your post I thought it was about being a widow, well your friend is not a widow she's divorced right? For me it's easier to have a serious relationship with a widow because legally a widow is free and single even if she has children. With a divorcee it really depends, for me since we don't believe in divorce I think it's hard to have a commitment with her even if the man loves her. That's my opinion of course, there are a lot of other people who believe in divorce and have led happier lives after it.
Another thing is how to get along with the children but then if you love somebody you will also love the ones that they love :)
@margies (128)
• Indonesia
30 Nov 12
sorry if my english was bad :)... and make you confused with my words...
my friend told me , when you get a love relation with someone, my friends advised me that should not be in a hurry with a man that you're not so sure. so you don't take a wrong decision. in my environment, sometimes people look at one eye to the widow. and when many men approached her, it would create an awkward situation for the woman. people often give negative thinking first...
