How Do You Feel About Being Lied About?

First thing that came to mind is how the heck does this dude have a cellphone and then how did he get your number? I am pretty sure any sane spouse would not believe such accusations if everything is going well at home and judging by these claims you should have nothing to worry about. There is an old saying from the Nazi's(may their name be blotted out) that a lie told enough times becomes a truth so make sure it ends today.

Hello my beautiful cousin. Since i am staying with you i would let you hit me but im kind of scared since you look soooooo mad. LOL. But anyway dont let him bother you. We all know how much you love your husband and you know as well as i do this "homeless" man is just doing this because he saw me at the gas station and saw that i was angry at him for the crap he pulled earlier. You tell me everyday not to let the little things get to you so dont let this get to you. Its no big deal. Me and you deal with people talking crap about us everyday whats the difference today. Yes it was uncalled for for him to call you and leave you that voicemail but hey it gave us a good laugh right?? Love you

rocks are good for throwing... homeless guy would make a good target...

Throw it at the homeless guy?

hi lovingmybabies I anm angry for you too bu t one good thing I do not think your husband would ever believe such garbage as he knows you love him and he loves you.but I agree that was a horrible thing to lie about and I am also angry, whats with this homeless guy? Is he even trying to find a job and pay rent .this is horrid how he has acted when you two took him in to help him.I am glad you have mylot to let steam off at.I do hope your husband realizes what a crock of s.h.i.t.that man left on the phone. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

That is really something that will enrage me, too. What was the guy thinking messing up like that? He is insensitive and a lunatic!

I'm glad you vented. Hubby Knows you would Never , Ever do anything like that! I know ut is hard for you but I suggest you let the guy go, stop trying to help.

Better tell your husband that this guy is about to say made up stuff. I'm sorry to hear about this. I know nobody wants to be lied to and lied about, and I would be reacting the same way or perhaps even worse when it's my relationship or people I care about that's in the line. I'm sorry for this homeless person as well. He just lost a good friend and made an enemy instead.

My ex would get an idea in his head and just run with it. There was no making him understand and I was blue in the face. It was as if someone had lied and told him things about me that weren't true. It was so frustrating. ANd he believed his ideas. A lot of homeless people have psychological problems. THis guy is no different. I wouldn't take anything said by one as fact. And your husband and those close to you should know you better than to think any of this is true.

I`d tell my husband so that he helps me deal with him. That sounds as harrasment. Now I don`t understand why did you befriend him to begin with. I can see that he has no home, but he has a cell phone.

Wow that is truly messed up, I would try and cut all ties with him. After all that I'd be like sorry you'd just lost probably the only friends you ever had. I hate it when people lie about me too and try and break up my marriage. I never know why people try to step in between a married couple and break them up. But like I said above, I say try and find something really heavy that you can pick up and throw and and throw it straight at him and kick the crap out of him. Boy he's got a lot of nerve. This is so reminding me of the guy that is over here that is friends with my husband he would so do something like this. But he no longer hangs out around here thank God, because he has already upset my husband so much he's like I don't want him around any more. So maybe that's what its got to be like now. If he's going to even stoop that low.

Hi LovingMyBabies You cannot change the world or even control what others feel or do. But amidst this, did you realize what you did to yourself? You just used your 3 emoticons and all of them of anger. You also have been feeling upset! for what?a person who misinterpreted you and said such stuff for no reason. Yes, you have a right to get upset, but for a person who was neither important, nor understanding, nor respecting... It hurts, and definitely it does. I agree. But then, I would move on. That is me. Life is much beyond such people and such instances. I would not allow anyone else to control me.

I think a good kick in the nuts would be a fitting move. I know you love your husband. I hate it when people do those things. I have had things like that happen to me in my life. I am the type of person though that will write someone off in a bout 3 seconds. I know I cannot control what people say about me, but I don't have to defend myself. The people who really know me, know the kind of person I am. There are many jealous people in this world and they will stop at nothing. I have seen it time and again. You have the right to be pissed. I don't blame you. But I believe your husband knows you better then that and knows you would never do anything stupid like that. So, its time to write that homeless guy off.

Hi lovingbabies. Though I did not read the earlier discussion of yours but I do have a fair idea about what you are talking. First of all it is natural to become angry. The best solution to such situations is to ignore them. Making you angry and giving them attention is what they want. Unless that person crosses limit you should ignore that guy. But if he turns out to be a phsycho or something, I think you should report him to the cops. Anyways have a nice day ... +SuperShames+

Tell him to take a good look at himself in the mirror first. He may not realize that he is a broken man. Usually people in such a situation are no better than those in the mental asylum. Just keep your distance from him otherwise he keeps stalking you to no end.

As sad as it is to say, I don't think that there is a way that you can be friends with this man any more because he is obviously jealous of what you have with your husband and wants to break that apart. It is terrible that someone would be like that but it also does seem to me that those people that we try to help the most are the people that stab us in the back the most. I wouldn't recommend throwing something right now, but I can tell you that if it was me in your shoes, I would probably hit that guy if I ever saw him again.

Is there a blackmail in the offing? I hope not but that homeless guy could do something to wreck your marriage if you don't do something for him. I think you better talk it out with your husband and probably make a police report.

That would definitely tick me off!! It's one thing to have someone tell lies about you, but once they start telling lies and trying to come between your relationship, it's too much. There was this girl I've known for almost 4 or 5 years. I knew her parents and eventually her when she'd come from Washington to stay the summer. WEll last year she moved in with her parents and I ended up working at the same store as her. Things were fine for a while but once she had met my boyfriend she completely changed. She'd always ask about him or get excited when he came to visit me at work. Then it got to the point where she'd tell me lies about him and she'd also tell my boyfriend lies about me saying that he "better be careful" because she had seen me at work talking and laughing for a while with a guy. At first my boyfriend believed her and asked me about it..he's been cheated on before and it's one of his biggest fears. Believe me, I was livid when I found out about all the lies she would tell me and him and I got even more mad when I found out she was saying the same thing to my coworkers! She would tell them "Oh I don't know about Courtney's boyfriend, don't tell her but I saw him here, here, and here". I was so mad when I found out and even thinking about it now gets me upset. Now, that girl doesn't even look at me and hardly ever says hi to me. So I can understand how you feel about those lies. Even though you know they're not true it still gets to you. I hope you're feeling better!

About what is happening to you right now, is part of our journey in life. We just have to be strong and have faith to HIM. Exactly, being lied is somewhat very annoying and makes you anger and even can't control your temper. But one thing that we should see to it that it is just part of our lives here on earth. Just focus and everything will be okay.

I guess this guy took the step from "friend" to "that guy" pretty quickly! Not wanting to work, messing with his friends' relationships, this guy seems to be on a very dangerous path! He's gonna end up alone, cold, and hungry!