Would you allow God to take control of your lovelife?

my answer to your question is yes. I believe that if God takes control of my life especially my love life, everything will be alright. As of now I do not have a boyfriend but I believe that God has a reason why I do not find the right man for me and I believe that He has provided the perfect time for me and my future love to meet each other. Everything that is hard to get is worthy.

I use to do like this in almost all problems that I encounter in my life. Because god knows which will suit for us.

yup, very exact discussion for me. I am also in the same situation. I gave my whole love life to the God, hoping that he will do as I desired. But he did it in another way, the way he likes it(am very angry on him,but I cannot).Even my lover told me that she might not be good for me. But in the beginning itself I have told to God that however bad she may be to me please unite us. But God didn't hear my prayer. But I have decided that I will still love her and continue to love her even after she gets married. I can surely say that even God cannot change my mind in that. And now you know what I hate God that much but still I love him and that is only because she said to me that there is God and please love him and believe in him. Therefore God still I love you....

I'm not even believing in God. I do think that I have a huge role in how my relationships go. And I believe that if I don't do anything for my relationship, and say I can do anything, because it's a divine plan, it's going to end, even if I'm in love...

We dont have to allow, God always takes control of our life whether its love or anything else. If god doesnt interferes in our life then our life would have become more problematic and sorrowful. God makes one's destiny and everything is in his hand and at his will. Lord Vishnu is the one who controls the whole universe and i am one of his worshiper.