Do you enjoy the marriage party or feel alone due to less talking

India
November 29, 2012 3:54am CST
I enjoy the lot in marriage party because mostly I goes with my relatives and there talking, laughing and eating doing all three works at a time. But I notice my danger and sweet hubby goes in marriage and stand alone in one side he eats the meals but not talking with anybody. Feel like boring but I enjoy my life in everywhere with anybody. What is your habit enjoy the party or stand alone and only watch the people in party.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
29 Nov 12
hi, I get very bored usually i try to avoid such parties only attend those which i can't avoid i am not a talkative person like you .I feel so awkward even to stand there. Eating time is the best for me as everyone will be busy with their food. Otherwise so boring.
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• India
29 Nov 12
Ohhh God means you are like my danger and sweet hubby feel awkward, boring and live to alone. But we goes in party for enjoyment not for boring. Hmmm you should also enjoy with food if not like the person hehee...just joking. I like marriage party foods.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
29 Nov 12
I will take part in discussion and share happy things with them. Stand alone will make me feel I was isolated. Talking to someone makes me socialize.
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• India
30 Nov 12
You are right if talking with someone means soicalize and I think this is good way to enjoy the life.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
3 Dec 12
It is marriage season here, my anniversary is 7th december, i was married in 1966, my elder son's is 13th dec, this time i have more than 20 cards, some are in close relatives family, i attended; to some i sent gifts today there are 4 parties/receptions in different 'mandaps'; but neither me nor he went, my younger son and his wife attended , gave packets containing 500, as we do usually
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• India
3 Dec 12
Hmmm I should remember this day because always forget the birthday and anniversary. EVen forget my brother's and husband's birthday. So where is party dont forget to invite me.
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• India
5 Dec 12
It is in our home's big hall, in Sambalpur, after reaching the station give a call to prof. my son will pick you up, ok
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
29 Nov 12
Hi, May I ask, why u say your hubby is danger and sweet? Is he dangerous and sweet to others or to you? Ok, ok, please don’t misunderstand me, just joking around… Usually I don’t o alone to any wedding or parties until unless it is so unavoidable and even if I visit, I can easily make friends and I can find some company sooner for eating or chatting.
• India
29 Nov 12
Heheh....I never feel misunderstand about any words or sentences. This question ask me many mylotters and I tell the reason I call my hubby to danger and sweet because some time they annoy on me then I feel he is very danger but some time they loves me then feel ohhh very sweet. So I call by such name mixing of both ehehe...I am laughing after reading your response and after writing my comment. Nice you can easily make friends like me and enjoy the party with friends and food.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
30 Nov 12
Hey friend, I think all the hubby/s in this world are like that, sometimes sweet but at times you can't find another dangerous person as him...., hey, here is a tip for you - the next time he gets annoyed on you, give him a smile and see how the danger is having a confused look in his face.
• Howrah, India
29 Nov 12
I feel the second one that is feel alone due to less talking.I am not so talkative and I don't like unnecessary talking about anything so I feel little uncomfortable at the marriage party. Thanks for the discussion...
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• India
30 Nov 12
Ohhh you are also feel alone even lots of people are there. Hmmm what you means women talk unnecessary. Dont worry after marriage you will attend every marriage party.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
29 Nov 12
Depends on the party. If I am part of it I have to enjoy because I know that I am part of it. If i am just a guest I am just waiting for some people whom I know and enjoy their company but not the entire party. Anyway, I am glad that you are such a happy person and you can easy mingle with the people around you. That's a great quality you will never be bored, loner and lonely. good for you. cheers.
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• India
29 Nov 12
Hmmm not depends upon party but depend upon the mood. Party is always good may be birthday, marriage, anniversary anything. Yes this is true I am easily mingle with people even they are unknown for me.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
29 Nov 12
Good for you. I wish I have your party going feeling too. I am so lazy attending parties though. If it is just an ordinary party and my presence is not really important, I wouldn't go.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
Why your danger husband keep to himself only? I am also like your danger husband when I attend wedding. I just sit after taking my food and enjoy the music and after a while leave for home. I am quite a reserve person.
• India
29 Nov 12
Ohhh God you are also same want to sit alone but I wants more friends besides me. I enjoy with relatives friends and with food. Never leave single dish without taste. Really some man are very shy...Hhehe...I am laughing because you are calling only a single word danger why not use second word sweet for my hubby. In his both quality danger and sweet. hahah....
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 12
You know what...I don't even know what you mean by danger husband which you often write in your discussions. I learn new word from you.
@anil02 (24688)
• India
29 Nov 12
Hello, you are of jolly nature, you can mixup with any one easily. Some person are of reserve nature. I think if you hubby meet with person who is of his nature than he may be mixed up. I also like to enjoy all function.
@anil02 (24688)
• India
30 Nov 12
But I think it is not good to mingle with unknown persons. Be care full. It is not written on the head of any one that he/she is right one. Encourage your hubby to enjoy functions.
• India
30 Nov 12
You are right sir I can mingle with anyone even the person is unknown. My sweet and danger hubby is very shy and not enjoy party only eat the dishes and leave the party.
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@Arieles (2473)
• United States
29 Nov 12
I haven't been to a wedding reception in a few years. The last wedding reception I went to was the worst one ever. It was a fancy sit down dinner, at a table of complete strangers, and the worst possible experience. I hated every minute of it. I felt so out of place. The best wedding reception I have ever been to was that of my Uncle and Aunts many years ago. My grandfather called some square dancing, everyone was laughing and having a good time. We didn't have assigned seats and it was the best ever. I'll never forget his wedding and reception, it is one of my fondest memories.
• India
29 Nov 12
Ohh God your experience is worst in marriage party but my experience is good notice the new married couple, eating various types of dishes, talking with friends and relatives. Nice wow!! this is great way to enjoy dance. Nice at least you enjoy the party.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
29 Nov 12
I can enjoy myself with friends and relatives in weddings, I talk and dance a lot (but I'm not that person who creates the party and starts dancing in the empty room :D), But if I'm with strangers, I'm not released that quickly... I usually eat and sit there, as I'm not really one that is that fun and open with total strangers. Also, if I don't like the athmosphere of the wedding and music, that is visible on me.
• India
29 Nov 12
Nice means fully enjoy the party great ehheheh...I know you will not dance in empty room. hmmm means you also love eating great.
• India
29 Nov 12
sureka, i know you are a talkative person, so you enjoy a lot with this kind of functions. In fact this kind of functions are the best chance to see all our relatives in one place and have get together with them. I enjoy a lot with my relatives in such kind of functions
• India
29 Nov 12
Yes brother you are this is a good chance to meet with family members or friends all are gathered in one place and chit chat to each other. Nice you also enjoy I love food so I eat various types of dishes and after eating leave the party. ehehe....
• India
30 Nov 12
i enjoy it because their is always free food and icecream hahahaha
• India
5 Dec 12
Hhahah...nice reason for enjoying party but I like only free food no icecream.
• United States
30 Nov 12
It goes either way. If I feel comfortable, I will socialize, dance, and enjoy my time! If it isn't a welcoming atmosphere or I am feeling off, then I might be a people-watcher on the side.
• India
30 Nov 12
Hmmm means you want to welcoming atmosphere dont worry I will welcome to you whenever I organised the party eheheh..just joking.
• United States
30 Nov 12
Haha thanks! Really, I was considering my comfort level with the other guests being a factor. You know, there are always those people that you have to keep up a relationship with although you don't really like each other? If the party is full of those people, I will just stand to the side and try to leave early! If it is mostly new people or people I feel comfortable with, I love to socialize!
@nani4ajay (108)
• India
30 Nov 12
I too enjoy the party, definitely any party meant for enjoyment we can talk to different people meet our relatives, even we meet new people which is a very good social condition I enjoy the party wherever I go...
• India
30 Nov 12
Hmmm great means your nature is like me free and frank and talkative nice means no boring anywhere.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
29 Nov 12
Hi dear, If any of my friends are there then I don’t have any problem to talk and pass my time. Otherwise I feel boring as I can’t mingle with strangers easily. In that case I will take care of my kids and talk to them then have meals with them. My hubby is just opposite; he can mingle with anyone so easily so he gets friends everywhere very easily.
• India
29 Nov 12
Hehehe....dear friend I think you know me and can mingle with strangers also because when we start talking then we can know each other. Hmmm means you are like my hubby and your hubby is like me mingle with anyone start chatting and laughing heehe...just joking. I love food so after meeting jump on food taste the various types of dishes and then leave the party.
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
1 Dec 12
I enjoy the company of people during marriages if I know them. If they are known people I talk to them and enjoy myself. Its when I am with strangers that I have a problem. I get absolutely bored then.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I like going to wedding receptions because I love the food But I do socialize with the other guests (friends and relatives) but I only make small just to find out a little bit about them. Besides, I don't usually stay long. After an hour or two, I leave the party and go home.
• India
29 Nov 12
I also leave the party after eating hehehe....I also love food Various types of tasty food are there. But I like wedding party not only for food but because some friends or family members gathered in one place and chit chat to each other..
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
1 Dec 12
We were lucky enough just last month to go to the wedding and reception of my cousin Chris and his new bride Lynsie. Now I was looking forward to the reception because of the food and dancing and getting to visit with family members that I don't have the opportunity to see on a regular basis. However, I didn't really think that my husband would be one to have a great time. I was very wrong, however, he had a great time talking to some of my family members during the reception as well. I really think that a reception is about having a good time, visiting with loved ones, and celebrating the happiness of the new couple.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
29 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, it does happen in marriages that when u are attending your friends or relatives marriage then u have the option of talking to many people at a time but when u are invited to someone's marriage where u are not aware of anyone except for the groom's or bride's family then it becomes a matter of concern as there is no one to interact and the marriage seems to be monotonous and boring for us and we feel like leaving it at once. What say?
• India
29 Nov 12
Yes this is a good place for talking with friends or relatives. I start this topic today because today at night I will go in marriage reception and I know I will enjoy but my danger and sweet hubby will not enjoy only eating and then sit alone on chair.
@Lovegreen (376)
• Philippines
29 Nov 12
I don't usually attend wedding parties and when I do it is of someone related to me or someone I'm close to so more or less the guests attending there are people I know too. By that there are always people there I could talk to because I have something in common with them, and there are always topics that we could talk about.
• India
29 Nov 12
Ohhh you not like wedding parties but why there is tasty food and special dishes I love it ehhe...just kidding. But really love and I never leave single dish without taste.