what If I am not brave, who will take courage for me?

Difficulties are inevitable in life. No matter how hard it is, we have to live on. After reading your situation, i thought of mine. I am now working in a big city and i don't make much money now.The high cost of life makes me rather stressed. in August my girlfriend came here and started to find job. But unfortunately she was almost jobless for two months. At that time life seems very hard for me. I have to support 2 people with my slim salary. we quarrelled from time to time just like you for the mess of life. Now it is better, hope you good luck too!

hello there! we know that love alone cannot make a living. love cannot pay bills and so on. but love can transform you to be responsible in life. if you love and care one another, both of you will work hard and make a living to support your future. i understand it's hard to have a long distance relationship. but it is all about trust. if you truly believe that your future will be great if you both work together nothing can stop you for doing what is right. it's better to have a work than just waiting rottenly until all things become mess. your bf should also encourage you and support you esp in your career. if he truly believes both of you will have a good future, he won't hesitate to support you all the way. you can't blame your family for acting like that because they only want the best for you. i know it's your life and own choice, but sometimes we have to listen to them. i know because of that you will learn more in life. long distance relationship is great if both of you know how to handle it. it's all about trust, support and understanding. you, yourself the courage will come from and not on anybody else. when you wake up your mind, everything will be fine again.

I must say, you have definitely put yourself in a difficult situation. You should always weigh in all the possibilities before making such decisions in your life. Think about the pros and cons in dealing with relationship. Reality wise, financial stability is somehow helpful in a relationship. And you should keep in mind that without having both of you working, it’s quite hard to come up with your day to day needs. However, I cannot blame your for your situation because we can’t predict how love will guide us in our future and the future is subjective. What you should do as of now is to find ways and means to get money, find a decent job in the locality that you are living with your partner. Tell him what is practical on your status; tell him that you would like to help on finding solutions financially. If things wouldn’t work out well, there is always your family that will help you in times like this. Be strong.