What should I do?
@money_maker01 (1097)
Malaysia
November 30, 2012 10:30am CST
I have one close friend in my office. She helped me a lot on those works related more than my supervisor. She will go back to her country for good tomorrow 
I met her just now, she gave me some of her stuff. Actually it's not that I really want those, but it's more like my friend's stuff. So I said yes to her.
Since she's going for good, I think it's not appropriate if I'm not going to the airport to give the one final good bye. Maybe I'll I told her about my plan and she said no need to the airport as it's far from here which is will be for one hour.
I don't know whether I should go there tomorrow as I'm totally afraid that she might need her own privacy with her boy friend although I plan to be there for around 10 minutes only. I'm not that tough till the end. Besides,I met her just now..so I really don't want to make her feels that being disturbed by me..
If you guys in my position, wut should u do then?? Should I go there?
I met her just now, she gave me some of her stuff. Actually it's not that I really want those, but it's more like my friend's stuff. So I said yes to her.
Since she's going for good, I think it's not appropriate if I'm not going to the airport to give the one final good bye. Maybe I'll I told her about my plan and she said no need to the airport as it's far from here which is will be for one hour.
I don't know whether I should go there tomorrow as I'm totally afraid that she might need her own privacy with her boy friend although I plan to be there for around 10 minutes only. I'm not that tough till the end. Besides,I met her just now..so I really don't want to make her feels that being disturbed by me..
If you guys in my position, wut should u do then?? Should I go there?1 person likes this
4 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
30 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. I can understand your situation very much and how much u must be confused right now whether to see her off at the airport or not. i think when u are aware of the fact that she is accompanied by her boyfriend at the airport then your presence might make her and her boyfriend uncomfortable. So its better to her call her before she boards her flight and wish her so that she will feel that u care about her and would miss her presence at the office.
What say?
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@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 12
Super thanks for your suggestion...I am in such deep confused now on! But seriously your suggestion helps me a lot. Thanks again 
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
I don' think you have to send her off. I mean it is okay that you told her that you wanted to see her at the airport for the last time. In my opinion, it is fine to just inform her that you will still be keeping in touch.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 12
money--maker no do not go to the airport as she has a boyfriend
and there's no need for you to be there. You will make her feel awkward and you have no ties to her so why do this? Just casuually bid her goodby and leave it that way.You will just get hurt and make her feel bad too. leave it alone.One day you will meet someone who is unattached and fall in love yourself.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
30 Nov 12
If you became close friends and shared time together as friends, I would go to the airport to see her off. I have done this with friends who has left for another part of the country or another country where I would probably never see them again. I went. Will be the last opportunity to see them. Take a camera, take some pictures to share with each other later on.
I would go. With camera and a small gift to remember me by.
