I think I'm in love with him
By Krizzzy4U
@Krizzzy4U (41)
November 30, 2012 7:03pm CST
When I look at you, I see him. When i lay next to you, it's him I dream about. He is the reason for this smile on my face. But I know it's you that i love. If you could just be patient with me. When I'm in doubt I just look at this shiny and glittery thing on my finger to remind me of the promise I made to God and to you. He may be the guy of my dreams and intend to keep it that way. You are the reality that awakes me every morning.
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@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Dec 12
Hi,
A glimpse into a married woman's thoughts? Maybe, too dangerous if the husband finds out but then, it shows in the long run, the faraway look, the silent moments, the slips of the tongue in moments of ecstasy. Its dangerous thoughts, quite exciting but don't get hurt if the other woman comes around with similar thoughts on your husband.
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@Krizzzy4U (41)
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1 Dec 12
You gave me something to think about. I think it's normal to encounter such situation as what i'm going through right now, and it's really up to the person if he or she is going to nurse the feeling or not. Right now I'm just confuse, if I go for my happiness or doing what's right.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 12
if you really are in love wtih this ohter man ou have to be honest with yo ur husband as its not his fau lt.you should not have marrried him if you are in love with another . someone is g oing to get hurt here for su re. Does this him know how you feel , have you cheated on your husband if so its time to he honest andf quit living in a make believe world.I would not say this is normal as most women marrythe man they love not just marry for some other reason.do whats right and tell your husband now and talk to this him too as you cannot keep pretending forever.
@Krizzzy4U (41)
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3 Dec 12
If falling in love with someone is considered cheating, maybe I am. The other guy doesn't know about my feelings. I'm struggling everyday to make my emotions stop.
@Gibelle (2)
• Romania
1 Dec 12
So, you're in love with another guy, no ? Do something ! I know, it's complicated because you have compromised with a man and made a promise to him and to God but I think that's not the right thing to do, stay married with someone who means something to you just because is writen somewhere..
I don't know if you still feel something for your husband but you should do what makes you happpy.You have just one life so enjoy it! I think God will understand you because what are you feeling it's called love. I wish the best for you !
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@Krizzzy4U (41)
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3 Dec 12
As a christian the right thing to do is to fight the temptation. I believe this is part of God's test to my marriage. I hope I am strong enough to get through this.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 12
hi Krizzy 4u And what does this you think , does your you know about h im,that you are in love with Him? i feel sorry for the person you are sleeping with, your real husband as he is coming in second place.So you do love your husband then what is this with him? perhaps you need to see this him and break it off before the man you maried realize the dangerous game you are playing Why did you marry this you if the other m n is the m an of your dreams?i am confused too.
@Krizzzy4U (41)
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3 Dec 12
I'm not dating the other guy so there's nothing for us to talk about. I have feelings for him and I can't deny that but I'm not doing anything about it. He is a good friend and I intend to keep it that way. He doesn't know I have feelings for him.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Dec 12
I think you should have been in love with the person you married. If you weren't, you should not have married him! Why are you cheating on him?!? You should have never gotten married if your just going to cheat on your husband, poor guy!! I hope he finds out so he can find someone that won't cheat on him. =( I think you should either end your marriage or end the "other" relationship.
@Krizzzy4U (41)
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3 Dec 12
I didn't cheat on my husband on purpose. I did not do anything to nurture the feelings I have to this other guy. I kept this feelings to myself and hoping it will fade away. The other guy doesn't know I have this feeling towards him.
@easybreezyjuzzy (71)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Pag sure diha mare! Haha! Nice one..mwah
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Dec 12
mylot admins says use only English in posts as they have no translators and its not f air to use who speak E nglish.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
11 Dec 12
Sounds like you need some pre-marriage counseling. You would be very unset with 'the reality that awakes you every morning' if he was thinking of someone else. And that woman was his dream, not you. So, who are you really in love with? A promise to God is made from your heart, not just something you do. God knows your heart. I would be honest to God and to the reality that awakes you. You do need to wake up!!!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
Reality knocks you hard, huh?
And I feel for you. I guess some people are just not meant to be together no matter how much we would want to. I know it is hard to be in such situation. I know, coz I have been through that phase. If only the bathroom could talk, it would have told everyone in the house the number of times I cried my heart out. But, I have realized that above anything else, marriage is the most important. Not unless your husband does not show you love and understanding, then maybe it is time to let go of the marriage. But if your husband is someone that you know in your heart is the person that you love, then teach yourself to just focus on him and no longer think of the "what ifs" that has been bothering you all these times. Give yourself a chance to have peace within yourself by slowly veering away your thoughts about the other guy. It may not be easy, but if you will truly set your mind into it, you'll be surprised that one day, even if you bump into that other guy, your feelings for him is no longer there.
And I feel for you. I guess some people are just not meant to be together no matter how much we would want to. I know it is hard to be in such situation. I know, coz I have been through that phase. If only the bathroom could talk, it would have told everyone in the house the number of times I cried my heart out. But, I have realized that above anything else, marriage is the most important. Not unless your husband does not show you love and understanding, then maybe it is time to let go of the marriage. But if your husband is someone that you know in your heart is the person that you love, then teach yourself to just focus on him and no longer think of the "what ifs" that has been bothering you all these times. Give yourself a chance to have peace within yourself by slowly veering away your thoughts about the other guy. It may not be easy, but if you will truly set your mind into it, you'll be surprised that one day, even if you bump into that other guy, your feelings for him is no longer there.