life is full of supprises
By namusoke1
@namusoke1 (83)
Uganda
December 1, 2012 2:18am CST
i have a classmate who was supprised to find out that actaully the people whom she has been calling her parents are not the real ones, she has been living a good life whatever she is been desiring she gets, she has been a celeb at school because they are loaded at home. at the beginning of this week her real parents surfaced after 15 years. these parents said that they lost her at the time of birth were a certain nurse switched the babies for her own interests. it was unbelievable so the DNA test was done and results proved it was true that that this couple were telling the truth. my classmate refused to accept them because they were poor and she was used living a luxarious life. the story is long but if it you would you go with these parents and leave these ones that have taken care of you since you were bone?
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14 responses
@shukladhar31 (11)
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1 Dec 12
life is full of surprises. in my point friend is also surprises bur most surprises is time. only time will give the most surprises gifts for ours. who friend will understand mostly our's felling he was the best surprises in our life. if we will get a award it is also surprises so life is full of surprises
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
1 Dec 12
What happened to your friend is very sad, and I wish that her parents told her this news when she was much younger. it would have been easier if she was prepared. But life is not always fair, and we must all learn to handle what comes our way. I am sure that your friend is very sad and angry now, but with love and understanding she will get through this. I am not sure that focusing on riches and wealth is what she should do now. She needs time to accept what happened, and she needs your love as a friend right now.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
1 Dec 12
I don't think she should be expected to live with her real parents. It's hard enough trying to deal with that knowledge and let alone having to change your life style. The parents she lived with are her parents and she just strive to deal a relationship with her real parents.
@nitinnair89 (2900)
• India
1 Dec 12
Hi namusoke1!
I feel sorry for your classmate. If i was her, i would have been happy and hugged my real parents with pride and joy. at the same time, thank those people who took care of me for the past years. i wish if both the parties live as one big family together and have a good life.
@ridwanhiariej (2)
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1 Dec 12
really like a soap opera,but in my opinion,should she returns to his biological parents, he was willing however his flesh and blood,it is very difficult for her, but still have to try.. Wish your friend has a good choice.. :)
@Winston12321 (21)
• Singapore
1 Dec 12
This story is so storylike... And I feel that it is roughing to a small extent. However, if I were in your cousins shoes, I would accept the fact that the biological parents are poor. The family you are born in is your family and you can never change that fact, no matter poor or rich. On top of that, it is not as though your parents purposely abandoned you. I feel that your classmate should acknowledge his/her biological parents as well as the family she was bought up in.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
1 Dec 12
for sure all the time we get surprise and receive,your story about dna test serems to be very unique and at last what happen to the child
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Yes u are absolutely right, life is full of surprises and u never know when life would sprung up a surprise and leave u spell bound.
Well coming back to that girl's case, i know that it would have been very difficult for her to accept this reality but then her behavior of refusing to accept her old parents was really confusing and annoying. i think she should not have behaved that way and her refusal would have hurt her real parents so much.
What say?
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
1 Dec 12
A great story for the big screen... real life stories are the best ones. Take care there.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
1 Dec 12
If I were the girl, I will do the same. Not because I don't want to give up the luxarious life, nor because the parents who raise her are rich, and the real parents are poor,but the parents who raised her really had taken good care of her and gave love to her, there is love between them. It's a pity that the real parents will be sad, I think the love during the whole growth of the child is not easily fixed up.
Thanks for sharing!
@Ahana123 (139)
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks for sharing the case. I can understand you classmates situation since she is used to one mode of lifestyle & was brought up by loving parents. The situation explains no fault of hers but still she has to go through the agony of the facts of life. Its difficult to take a call but but surely she can explain to the court about her preferences.
@hlfbldmom (743)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
wow!..it's like a movie huh...Ohh well, If I were on her situation at first of course it will be hard for me especially that when I grew up all I know is that they are my real parents and then after 15 years I will know the truth. Also she used to have a luxurious life so it will be hard for her to accept. Maybe give her some time to absorb everything that is happening.
@swetify620 (302)
• Australia
1 Dec 12
it is not easy decision,u need to think it a thousand times.!!don't force her at the moment just leave her alone give some times to think..i know its a big shocked to her side,especially that she used in a good and rich people.but if she think about forgiveness,maybe she can accept her real parents soon.because if not because of her real parents,she is not here in this world.even her real parents is poor but i know they are trying hard to raise her and give whatever she want.she so grateful because she is given time to know the truth...
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
1 Dec 12
Sometimes horrible things happen to good people. She is not to blame for what happened to both sets of 'parents'. It is best that the truth came out. She will now be very angry, and sad, but soon she will be able to receive healing - if she wants. Your friend will eventually be responsible for her actions and I hope that she will accept what happened and then move on with her life.
