Losing interest

India
December 1, 2012 5:59am CST
Hi all.. This is a sad news for me really...now a days i am hardly able to make discussions or posts on mylot. I barely make 1 post or reply to my posts...this will surely affect my earnings here and i am afraid i will never be able to make my minimum payout. I am not getting enough time to come here and it hurts me. :( I hope i can do well in the coming times..
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14 responses
@Life11211 (452)
• India
1 Dec 12
Take a break. Don't force yourself too hard, this is just one phase of life, will pass. Mylot will become more enjoyable when in process you make good friends in between and start actually discussing topics, which helps you to back in mood. See which things you enjoy the most, which topic when discussed in mylot, makes you happy. If you only concentrate on earnings, it becomes really difficult for you to stay long in mylot, as mylot is more about interacting, learning and earning.
• India
1 Dec 12
I am not forcing myself friend. I regularly update things of interest here so i am never bored, the thing is, since i dont get enough time here, i feel maybe mylot will be just another kind of forum site for me without earnings, thats all :)
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks...haha.. Well, i use mylot through my phone and i consider myself lucky that this site works fine in my phone..i cannot access sites like youtube though.. :(
• India
1 Dec 12
Yes i checked couple of your discussion. One thing which i observed is that you are very expressive in your thoughts. (thumps-up) Its just health issue or may be some day when don't enjoy anything. If it happens with me, i go with watching my favorite movies on you tube even funny videos makes wonder.
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@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 12
Dont worry friends. Do not force yourself to much if you dont have time. Just work slowly and be patient. You will be able to reach payout here. Happy mylotting.
• Malaysia
1 Dec 12
I see your star reputation increase. Good job friend. :)
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks..haha..but i dont know how it actually works. My rank is less than yours still the number shown on the star is different.
• India
1 Dec 12
Akamaru..thanks buddy. I see you have grown a lot here on mylot...and i am happy to see that besides your name :D yes i am working too slowly here, no problem at all.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
2 Dec 12
I think on most occasions this has happened to the best of us, and it is hard when time is limited. I have days where it is harder than others to post back in here and active due to working full time as well. Or just not always being in the mood. All I can say is don't give up. Come here when you can and keep on encouraging yourself and good things will happen.
• India
4 Dec 12
Yes i agree with you. Thanks a lot friend. In my case, it's the time limit and add to it the browsing speed of a cellphone :( Still i will try my best to be active here.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
2 Dec 12
That's what happens when you try too hard; you get disappointed when-you manage to work harder and -your 'earnings' are still the same (they're really your 'gifts from myLot'). The trick is to be here for what you put here, not -for "money." I'm here to get you thinking about the cause-&-effect of things---sometimes by just asking, sometimes by VENTING about how it seems that people choose not to support me because they're too busy supporting fruitless causes. Or Something Like That. Or Not.
• India
2 Dec 12
Well said my friend. Thanks a lot for your response. I will surely not focus on earning here :) Thanks!
• Philippines
2 Dec 12
Well, I guess everybody gets their off-myLot or inactivity every now and then. My activity also was greatly reduced since the time I joined out in here. But still, it didn't stopped me from getting on in here every now and then whenever I can. Real life issues do hinder myLotting patterns. Still a good thing that you are able to post out discussions and respond to other topics even with the little time you are able to put up. All I know is that myLot will still be here even when we get past to a long hiatus from it. So no worries.
• India
2 Dec 12
Yeah. There's a long way to go in mylot. Mylot, as per me, will beat all discussion forums out there. Go mylot go! :)
2 Dec 12
hi dear i perfectly understand u and i know it not easy when u have to go to wrk. Am facing the same problem too.
• India
2 Dec 12
Thanks chris! Firstly, welcome to mylot buddy. Yes it is difficult to manage both the things when we are pressurized. Since, this is weekend so i am trying myself to be active here
@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Just make a spare time in Mylot if you are free in your work. Work for moiney is still your option. Mylot is still there. Make yourself relax or keep calm down. I just give you an advice.
• India
1 Dec 12
I wish i get 'that' spare time and also i wish that my phone supports mylot at full speed :)
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
1 Dec 12
Maybe you're too pressured with reaching payout. Piece of advice, don't think about the payout. Just post or respond to topics at your own pace, when you feel like it. You might be surprised that you've already reached payout.
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks for the response beamer. Well, with this speed i had calculated that i can reach my payout almost 4 times a year...and i am ok with that.
@jugsjugs (12967)
1 Dec 12
I think that there are a lot of people that come on here and some days find it hard to either start a discussion or even reply to a discussion.It is also the time factor as well, as many of us on here also have other things that will and must always come first. I come on here if and when I can, sometimes when I come on here, I end up just reading all the posts rather than replying to any, lol, getting side tracked, that is me.
• India
2 Dec 12
Lol..that was pretty good. I am not a 'focus-what-i-do' person so i am always side tracked.
@locakai (166)
• United States
1 Dec 12
I take a two month break. When I know I don't have time or to busy with work. Then I'm back on. No one ever said, you have to make pay out in one day. Writing is my love, so I write when I can.
• India
2 Dec 12
Oh that's great! Well, i too love writing but i write poems so sometimes i may find it difficult to start a discussion with nice topic.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
1 Dec 12
Hi nitinnair! Don't lose hope. There are really times that we have other things or concern to take into consideration that is why we are not able to participate on a regular basis. But I'm sure you can do it. Besides, the month is just starting. Good luck!
• India
1 Dec 12
I wont lose my hope as long as there are people like you who provide me the hopes to continue here on mylot..Thanks aries.
• India
1 Dec 12
Hi friend, don't worry, we are in need to do our offline work and give importance to it, surely you will get more time for mylot in the near soon and reach your payment, my wishes for it
• India
1 Dec 12
Thanks for your wishes, Vidya. Without referrals it is tough to reach for payout and my friends do not join such sites...you know how indians are...they hardly trust people..
• India
1 Dec 12
Hey nitin, I myself joined this site like a week ago and its great and I love the suggestions that others gave me on my posts and I also have had the opportunity to share some of my things that I know. Yeah, its hard to be active when we are busy with whatever profession we all do, but whenever you get time, you can come over here and share your things and also share your views on others topics. Have a nice day.
• India
1 Dec 12
Hello to you too. Thanks for the response. Yes i can see you are new here and reaching that number shows that you are active too :) I am happy to see that. mylot is really a great place to share our thoughts, emotions, etc. I usually share my personal happenings just like a blog and so far no such post got deleted so i may continue the same :)
@betty1989 (751)
• China
1 Dec 12
we do share discussions here and response to those that attract us a lot. Maybe most people on mylot have a stable job and share opions with us when offoffice. You are busy on doing something, right? at least spare one hour here before sleep. you can get something new here and learn a lot from different people. have a nice day.
• India
1 Dec 12
Yes i have a job on one of the MNC. I only get 1 hour on mylot..haha...so i actually use it before i go to sleep but on weekends i get full day and i try connect my phone in laptop to access. But the speed i get is horrible though.