today i had a quarrel with my wife

hate to hear you had a quarrel with your wife, hope things work out. It is ruff sometimes when the comes to finance problems but remember the one you love always comes first life is too short and try to enjoy each other. always tell her it is problem and can be fixed over time but THAT YOU ALWAYS LOVE HER..argueing never helps but solveing does..try to think of ways to improve be patient we all are there sometimes but if you can think things through the most important and work together on it and get one thing out of the way at a time..then go from there..try to be kind and think before argueing..hope things work out...to the good...

Hmmm friend still you not know quarrel or fight means increase the love. Ohhh God your wife should support you because money can came and go but if we are live then we can earn more. Lift is most important than money for me. I remember when my husband has not job till 4 years I never say anything to him no purchasing unnecessary things. No habit to spend more money no necklace or make up things. I love my danger and sweet hubby more than money. If husband is with us then I happy even the money is less. No matter about money. Sit with your wife and say her I will try to earn more money but wait because now expenses is more.

Your wife must be supportive with you whatever happen. It's business and your not predict the time when it will go okay or when it will be bad. I experience such thing too, my friend. I advice not to listen who is opposed you because it will make a big problem if you listen to them. They are only trying to make you down instead make you inspire. Wife is not being helpful if always finding out the faults. Our partner should be the first to understand us in such time. Just kept on moving, friend. Find out the best solution and I know you can be successful with your business someday. Life really harsh but if you stop there...nothing will be happen. Your there and continue and I think the best way for your now is inspiration...

Sad to hear you had a bad day with your beloved This usually happens between wife and husband. What is sad is that if problems arise, they come all at once that you are caught in between. Just do what you can do and you may find out you will succeed.

Sorry to hear this. I hope by now you and your wife are back in good terms. But if not, maybe you just need to give her some time. If you are having a financial problem, then this is a very stressful time for your family. She might be feeling the stress of being a provider for the family, while before it was something that you two shared. So just give her some space then when both of you are in a better mood, talk about it calmly. After all, it is easier to face a tough situation with the love of your life by your side than to face it alone.

Reassure her. Don't blame your situation. Let her know that your love for her goes deeper than your financial problems. Ask her if her love for you goes deeper than your financial problems. During the difficult times, a married couple needs to act like a team - supporting and encouraging one another. Perhaps, if you ask her for your support, she may find ways to give your her support. And then, offer your support to her. Take the time to go on dates together that don't cost anything, like taking a walk in a park or along the beach. Buy her a single rose!

My husband and I argue almost every weekend. That's the only time we see each other and I guess there are always instances that our conversations lead to arguments. It's just normal for couples to have some misunderstanding. Give her enough time to think. If you want to talk to her again, you should explain to her that she has to help you because you are really in a difficult situation. I guess she'll help you. What are spouses for? I think she can't stand seeing you helpless. Goodluck. Don't lose hope.

I tell you from my experience not a single wife in this world will move away from not helping their husband when they are need it may be even financial. If she had the money to help her husband and if it is genuine reason then she will always come forward for help. But if it is daily thing then she will keep herself away from not offering any help

Your wife may feel disappointed and at the same time worried. Just have a good talk with her and tell her how things are and that with her support, you may be able to get back on the right track.

so sad, but why did you quarrel just is it because she is not ready to support you. you could have handled it smoothly. May be she would have understood the circumstances. Anyways gone is gone try to talk to her and solve the problem.

Give your wife the benefit of the doubt. She might just be in shock and didn't know how to respond properly to this situation. I am sure that she will support you, she married you right? And your vows as couples is for better or for worse. Tell her that you need her right now more than ever. Plan ahead on what would be the best action for the two of you to take to be able to go through this.

Give her some a little of time... Then try to talk again maybe she will listen to you and have her opinion ready for your business plan.

I'm not sure what the financial arrangement is between you and your wife, but the reality is that these things can happen to anyone. She should be able to understand the situation and support you as your partner and family. Since it affects her too, she might wish for you to consult with her before making loans or large purchases. Let her know that you value her opinion and role, and try to have a rational discussion about the next course your family will take. You're in it together.

share with her the entire situation,where you feel things went wrong .then ask her for her opinion on how to get out of the mess,include her in all the decisions so that she also feels you trust her to see you through and then reassure her of working harder to come out of the problem.do this with love and if tempers flare ,let the situation wait abit,avoid quarreling at this time because you are also in pain because your business is going through a rough patch.

Hi Sooraj, A true partner should support you more during your tough times that is when a person needs more support. If she cannot support you during this time then U think it she who has think and understand you. I know it's hard but it's not your problem anymore just ignore her for now and concentrate on your work, let her realize on her own. Regards, Narthan

sorry to hear that... she should understand what you are going through. its a problem for the 2 of you, not just yours. Hope you patch things up with her soon. Give her a hug and tell her how much you love her.