Here we Are Almost Christmas Time Again,

@jeanena (2198)
Bucklin, Kansas
December 2, 2012 8:32pm CST
Are you ready for it? For the last 15 years or so I have dreaded the Holidays so bad.Thanksgiving this year wasn't too bad for our family but as usual not nearly all my kids were there just my girls. My oldest son and his wife both had to work , one in the morning and one in the evening so it was impossible for them to get away. The youngest son was more interested in hanging out with his friends I guess. We are going to see about getting a meeting room to have a big dinner so all the kids and elders can be there easier .We are thinking about making this a yearly thing if it works out well this year (prays) , and here I am finding myself for the first time in years looking forward to cooking,making candy for the grandkids and all the celebration of the season. How do you feel about the Holidays? What kind of family plans do you make for Christmas? Are some years better for you than others?
7 responses
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 12
Normally during Christmas time, we would spend with my family at the church for the Christmas service. Later we will go to a nearby restaurant for a good meal. There is one year we are doing well where my husband invited my extended family to enjoy lunch at a restaurant. I feel very happy as we can get together to celebrate this wonderful day. Another year, my husband bought a huge staffed turkey. My sister and I cooked up some other dishes and we invited family members to joined us. Since few years back, we went to Singapore for holiday as we can see the beautiful lighted streets of Orchard Road Singapore on the open deck double decker shuttle bus. But this year is still a Question Mark ???? as my husband retired early this year. I just got a job and 1st December is the official working day. I hope God will bless us a Wonderful Christmas day this year. God has it unique and mysterious wonders in his blessings. Thank you God.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Dec 12
Well what ever happens I wish you a Very Merry Christmas ,and hope you guys have a very special day.
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Dec 12
I am not looking forward to Christmas just because I don't have the money to get my children anything this year. My husband is having trouble finding a job and things have been really tough for us! So, I am not happy this year like I usually am about the Holiday. I know thats not the real reason for the Holiday but my children are too young to understand that we don't have money for presents...They will think Santa doesn't care about them and that is going to break my heart! =(
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Dec 12
Oh Honey i know how that is , We were there so many years while our kids were growing up. Did you get your kids on the Angel tree or anything? If not Please call the Ministeral Alliance in your area and tell them your situation most times they will help you. How old are your kids? and boys ? girls? Just nosey!
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Dec 12
Do call them , I know it is hard to ask for help but when it comes to your kiddos you do what you need to do. It was hard for me when I had to ask. Bless you hon
• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Dec 12
I have not tried that maybe I should. I hate asking for help... =( My children are 7, 5 & 3 years old. My oldest and youngest are girls, my son is my middle child.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 12
Wow, you are so blessed with wonderful children and grandchildren. I love the saying, "The More the Merrier". Christmas will brings cheers to families and friends. Sharing and caring during this festive season will bring joy to many. For me and my family, we will attend the morning service if any, at times they do not have but instead replaced by Christmas Eve Concert. So, we will attend the concert and on the actual Christmas Day we will go to a nearby restaurant to enjoy a delicious meal together.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Dec 12
I always end up with my extra kids stopping by to eat with us as well. They finish with their families and then have to come see what we have. There is always Turkey as well as Ham. And my husband makes a wonderful homemade peach cobbler that the kids fight over..lol So yeah "The more the Merrier"
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
This coming christmas, maybe our last christmas being together ( my siblings). Next year, the house which we stayed for 4 years will be redeemed( i don't know the exact word, sorry) already. I mean, that house was being mortgage to us way back 2008. I hope our christmas this year though we have financial and health problem. I wish we would still celebrate it happy and memorable.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Dec 12
I am sorry to hear about your house that is really a rough thing to have to go through. But for having the best father in law in the world we would have been homeless in 2009. Bless you and Wishing for better thing to come for you
@dee777 (1417)
• South Africa
3 Dec 12
Hi Jeanena. Christmas should not be exhausting for anyone. Keep it simple, but let those around you know that you care and love them. Enjoy preparing your meals and share the Meaning of Christmas with those around you. Happy Christmas to you and your family!
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
5 Dec 12
Everyone is planning to bring something so there will be something special from the daughter in law and and my son is planning to make something to. We are enjoying making plans
3 Dec 12
I think my family made me start to dislike Christmas a few years ago when we started traveling to my brothers for the holidays. It doesn't help that my birthday falls on the same day. What happens is the Christmas break involves a lot of unpleasant traveling, an uncomfortable bed in the form of a sofa and just too much messing around to really focus on the event. Sometimes I think I'd be more happy just having a Christmas all by myself, feet up and watching Christmas movies on the telly. I'm getting to the age, too, when presents don't really mean anything to me. I buy myself what I want and I'm not someone who wants all of the latest gadgets - I like simple things that do the task and so Christmas isn't really a holiday for me - I just end up with a load of junk I don't need and an empty bank balance!!
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Dec 12
Honestly it is suppose to be more about spending time together more than anything else. And I hear you on the birthday thing mine isn't to far after Christmas and my Granddaughter Bless her little heart is even closer Hers is Jan 2. Maybe tell them you want to stay home and watch Miracle on 34th Street. Happy Holidays!!
@edvc77 (2140)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
My family and relatives gather during Christmas Eve. We give gifts especially to the children. We have a large family. And I'm not yet through with my christmas shopping. I think I'm going to rush again. :-) Merry Christmas in advance!
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
3 Dec 12
Merry Christmas to you as well. I haven't even started to shop yet at least this year we will be able to get the grandkids something . My husband Braved the crowd Thanksgiving night and got a bike for Sophia (the only granddaughter).