a friend made me so sad
By xushuoyi
@xushuoyi (33)
December 2, 2012 8:52pm CST
i have a friend who is a boy and he also makes me happy,yesterday i had bad mood so i called him,but to my surprise,he not only said something to make me happy but also made me feel sad.he said that maybe i should go home after granduate and i don't fit to straggle in big citie~oh my god why he said this to me?it made me cry and i think maybe everything i did is wrong!what should i do and i also think the friendship of us should be ended~!
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5 responses
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
4 Dec 12
Sometimes people can say something insensitive without realizing what they said. I would have another talk with him. Perhaps he cares for you and doesn't want you to be overwhelmed living in a big city. I would take the time to understand what he really meant by what he said. If you still felt he was insensitive, then I would indeed find a different friend. All the best to you.
@applefacier (56)
• China
3 Dec 12
You should know that your friend is good for you. The friendship is the most valuable thing in the world, you should cherish it!!
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
3 Dec 12
Don't feel bad, he is probably just concerned about you. I hope all things will be good with you and your friend.
@Winston12321 (21)
• Singapore
3 Dec 12
Don't be worried. Even if you go back home after you graduate, he'll most likely still be your friend. On top of that, you shouldn't worry that everything you did is wrong. Even if it is, you can fix it yourself or with help from your family and friends. After all, what happens next is your choice.
@flutterbymusic (46)
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3 Dec 12
I'm sorry, I don't quite understand what happened - I can see that English is not your first language so don't be ashamed about that!
All I can say is that perhaps he doesn't realise that was he has said has hurt you and you should talk to him because he may apologise. It would be sad for you to lose him as a friend as I can tell that you care about him greatly.
