Do you share the same experience with me?

For some cases, yes. But in some instances, they have commented on my post and then add me as their friend. Maybe they just wanted to have lots of friends.

I have found the same to be true... A lot of the people that have asked me to be their friend have not responded to my discussions at all. Also, are you going to accept my request soon? I will comment on your discussions and visit your page!

Now you know why I visit my "friends list" every few months. The one's that aren't around or bothering to at least (once in a blue moon), respond, are deleted. You mentioned to me once when I was talking about deleting people that you don't like to do this but see, you now have a good reason to filter on through. I think some of the newbies think this is Facebook and brag about all the friends they have and that's the only reason they do this. I say out with them, which I do.

Same here. Anyway, I have people on my list who start topic/s which I cannot relate with. Therefore, I came to the same notion that, my topic doesn't caught their interest as well. I do not respond to topic/s all because he or she is on my lists. I only respond to topic/s that I can relate with.

hi allknowing maybe many of them expect MyLot to be another FB where the discussions would keep popping up on their home page Seriously, I have nothing to understand on this... I failed on all counts so I gave up. Again, I do find many are either enjoying their life beyond MyLot or are active on other discussions... time to run a drive to clean up with some of these

Since I have subscribed for e-mail notification, I am getting messages when my friends have posted discussions or made responses/comments to my postings. I am reading all of then at the first notice or later and make responses to almost of them if it feel appropriate. It is a pleasant moment for me when responses are find to discussions started by me or responses made by me. Hope that you would get a lot of such pleasant moments every day.

Oh yes, and I presume that most members have also. I do not expect that a friend should respond to every discussion I create because it depends on the actual subject matter and whether the topic would appeal to them, but many of those on my list have never responded to a single one. I refuse to believe that even I can be that boring. Of course I also have a few friends who do respond to quite a few, so naturally I monitor their discussions and respond if I feel that I have something to contribute. This seems only fair because they have earned my support. In my case I have 122 friends, all of whom submitted a friend request to me, but rarely get more than single figures for a discussion. Fortunately this does not bother me unduly, I simply accept the fact and continue to enjoy Mylot.

Hi ak! I try my best to respond to the discussions started by dear mylot friends, provided, am logged in and I could relate to the post. Many mylot friends also do not come forward to respond, when I start a new post. May be they remain too busy with their off line activities to come to mylot.

I suppose some people are just collector of friends. They requested for friendships and once approve they do nothing to support their newly acquired friends. I have approved so many requests but only a handful respond to my discussions. So I just treat these dormant friends as accessories in my profile. I hope to see their involvement in my future discussions rather than just being sleeping partners.

I really couldn't take track of all the people in my list. I just know a few of them who are really actively participating. Maybe some of the people on your list are not that active everyday or have just opt their accounts to be forgotten.

I have some friends that always make a response to my discussions, but most of them are like ghost,,ahaha they are not showing up either on my discussions and responses. I guess they just add as up for no reasons at all..

Hi friend, some persons are in this sort, they just send friend request to other mylotters and don't participate in their topics, it is based on the individual interest. We have lot of friends in mylot, it is really hard to expect reply from all of them in our topics, only interested persons will place their replies

I am taking time in selecting friends, as before accepting, i have habit to visit and check whether i can able to respond to discussion started by them. Till today with this new account, i had given friendship request only to few friends with whom i had enjoyed interacting in many discussions. I guess the reason could be they like you so much and want you to take part in all discussion started by them.

I am a novice of mylot.Originally,I was going to add friends to make them visit my page or communitate with me.But now I am worried about if it is a right way.I dont want to make friends who never pay attention to me.So,I dont know how to do .

I am happy that you got your blue star back. Only few of my old friends are active here. I am going to only those topics which I can relate. Now I realized many active members are not in my friend’s list. Those who added me may not be like my topics.

I have noticed the same thing, that maybe some of them just wanted a lot of friends. Or maybe some of the discussions that I have started, maybe they really don't have an answer to it. I have a select few who will respond to my discussions though. That is the only conclusion that I can come up with.

Hi, I just added you as a friend! Well for others i can't say but i try and search the discussions started by friends first and then if there is something which i feel i can post my response, i do so. There are few friends in the list but they start discussions which either i have no knowledge of or not listed in 'intrest category', those discussions goes unanswered by me. I think all your/ our friends are busy with offline activities - may be with hot coffee and chocos...

Maybe this people are not active anymore. I also have a lot of friends who invited me but I do have a chance to interact with them in the discussion area. Or maybe we just don't have the same interest. By the way, I never thought that you are not included in my friend's list. All these time, we have been exchanging thoughts. I used to be invited but this time, I will invite you. Would you be my friend? Have a nice day!

(Firstly,please forgive my poor English),I met so much people like what U said in anohter chatting program,usually they just say hi,and no more.I think they just get bored and find some ramdom person to add.So,may be you should just ignore them.

I have proved some friends here in mylot and some of them did response to my discussions. Be patient, you also shoulbe be active to the discussions our friends started and then they will response to yours. I am just new here and make a few friends here. I really enjoy here in mylot. Have a good time.