we can't cry loudly

Wow...this saying really touched me. An adult cry silently to forget what they like. That's why many says that being a child is blissful. Therefore, we must learn to live a life full of joy and happiness. Know what we want to achieve, so we may find success in the journey of our life!

Yes, when we cry very loud we will look like hysterical and we would look like "crazy or desperate". As much as possible we will hide the feelings that we are hurt over some matters. That's life.

hi, yes,that is true when a kid will cry they will loud it to hear and create a sympathy for his/her parents,but we can not do that when we grow up,because we are shy to cry put loud,but there are times that i can especially when i am alone at room and all windows and door is closed.

Kids is so blissful and they have all the freedom. They get what they want by crying out loud. They don't think about tomorrow or what will happen the next day. They are so free and lucky. But as we grew older we have responsibilities not only for ourselves but for people around us. We can't get what we want by crying. And yes we cry just to forget everything we don't want to remember.

Hi roshigo. Once I met a scientist during my internship. He used to talk a lot. And once he said something that I still remember. He was talking about how difficult it is for someone in research & development of a company to persuade the executives to provide for research. And then he said that the secret to get it done is by crying, just like a baby cries. Ir is not something you should be embarrassed off. If you cry inside nothing will happen. Cry out loud and you will get what you want. Have a nice day ... =SuperShames=

yes, Because we are adult, we can get what we want by speak it out or work hard for it. Babies cry for they have no other choice. But we adults are able to strive for what we desire.

When one is young one can blackmail adults to get what one wants, but you are right, once one grows up, it is more common to cry silently and people have to know us well to even notice what might be happening.

How I really wish to become a child once again. Yes, like what you wrote here- crying out loud to attract attention and to get what we want- just crying out loud then everyone will come to our rescue. How I wish that I can still do the same thing...lols.

After reading your post, I truly agree that being a child surrounded by parents' love is one of the best time in our life. As we grow, we learn that life is not a bed of roses. We have to earn to get what we want. If the thing is too expensive and we have limited finance, we have to sacrifice it for some other necessities and priorities. This sadness is kept silently in our heart. However, I always believe we should tap our full potential to achieve the best in life!

I don't even really think that it is appropriate for a child to cry loudly once they are old enough to start expressing their desires for themselves. I know that when it came to my children, they were never given what they wanted because they were crying from the time that they were able to talk. However, I do think that you are right that when we are adults, it is really viewed as inappropriate to cry in many situations. Yes we will still cry when we are really hurt, but we don't cry because we aren't getting our way.

You are right, we can't cry loudly; but at times situations come and we do cry; you know face is our mirror; looking at the face any one can tell if one is happy.. 7 days ago my grandson suffered from severe loose motion and vomiting, i could not sleep, was so sad; at present he is my best friend, clings to me most of the time Thanks for sharing

That is the simplest way to interpret how one cries when he is still a child compared to an older person. And I guess, when we do grow older, we are more aware of others being affected by the noise we create and we really do not want to be noticed. And yes, we sometimes cry to ourselves, taking all the pain alone.

It's like an irony of life or a paradox? should I say. Maybe the reason why we started to cry silently is because of our pride,our responsibility. We don't want other people know that we cried because we can't have what we wanted or because were hurt. As much as we can we wanted to hide our true emotions. When were a child we cried out loud because we are confident enough that our parents will give what we want for they don't want other people think that they can't give, I mean...it's touching the ego of our parents. But, it's not all the time true but most of the time. You've said that we cry silently to forget what we like. I think in this part as we grow old we became more responsible and selfless we aren't selfish anymore like when we're a child but we are selfless., we think our self less.

that's true. i seldom cry. and when i cry, i make sure no one can hear me or see me. i don't usually show my emotions to others.

Are you saying that if someone cries loudly they get what they want? Because my daughter and my son both cry really loud and neither of them get what they want even as babies they don't get what they want. It's call self control and children don't have it at all till yes they are older but even as adults we know how to work people even with out crying loudly. Tears are and expression of pain, angry, or sadness a normal human emotion that children have to express. When adults are around children you can say no to them even if they are upset with you it's part of life and letting them cry it out is good for them.

yes i agree life with so many changes as we grow up. But childhood is the best part of life with innocence added. I miss all those days.

Hi friend, you are right, my kids always do the same thing, they will cry in a louder voice to achieve their desire, it is really hard to cool down a crying child, so we are in need to fulfill their desires, as you mentioned we don't have the ability to cry loudly and keep our sorrows within ourselves

Yes we cry in silence because some of us are ashamed that someone may feel pity for us and we do not like it. Babies do not have a choice but to cry and they cannot speak and utter what they want unlike adults.

only child cries out loud but we can also cry out loud if we really need to loosen all those bad feelings our anguish for something or for someone.. but as an adult we really try hard to hide our feelings because we don`t want someone to notice us crying or feeling bad..