How much time can you wait your lover, to be with him?
By marina
@mistika1 (82)
Romania
December 3, 2012 5:28pm CST
I have a friend who waiting 8 years to be with her lover in real. She meet him online, and wait him eight years to meet him face to face. I can t believe that this can happened, i can t believe that a person can wait so much time. Do you believe that this is possible? Can you wait somebody years just to be with somebody? Is time precious for you, or you can waut a life just to be with a person who you love?
1 person likes this
14 responses
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
4 Dec 12
I think anything is possible when love is involved , I could wait a lifetime for the one I love . I think the time would not be precious if I am not with the one I love that love me , so I will wait as long as they want me too 
.
. @silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I guess even if I move on physically , my heart will still be waiting for that person return.
But I dont see what can keep a person from the one they loved forever though , so it also depends on where they are .
I think if the person truly love me they would wait on me because I would not make them wait forever .
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
7 Dec 12
Reading what you have mentioned really I will appreciate both of them. To tell you frankly it would have been not possible for me to hold my emotion and meeting my love.
But any way after all it was their Internet/online love and when they have the time and patient to sit and chat with each other, they have also the time to wait so long to meet in person too.
I am sure they must be happy after meeting each other after 8 years - after falling in love with each other.
@mistika1 (82)
• Romania
15 Dec 12
Is strange, but sometimes people can know each other very well when they sit and talk, and try to imagine what kind of person is miles away.
Love is hard to understand, and people are different, what i cant do, maybe another can do.
In time she will know if was a good decision or not.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
4 Dec 12
That's really amazing, I would never wait that long but I think all girls should wait a year cause it's very dangerous. You never know who you are talking to online and plus: it's really easy to pretend to be anyone we want online so those girls that fell for rapers and all types of meeting in person should have waited, it's dangerous.
@terinah14 (28)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I can wait forever if I met him in person first and we have built a strong friendship. But when I just met this guy online, i guess that's impossible for me. Online, we just know a part of a person, even 8 years won't be enough to prove that we know the person entirely. But I'm not your friend, I can't really tell enough about how deep their online relationship is. But what I know is that online relationship can be really different from the normal relationships we have.
@valerievy (162)
• Guam
5 Dec 12
I think it would be such a difficult thing to do, but it can be done. If you really love someone truly, deeply, and madly, you will wait as long as forever to be with him/her. Love is patient, so just have faith. You can try to keep yourself busy with other things as much as you can to pass the time. Just as long as you make sure to let each other know as much as you can that you are thinking of one another and love him/her truly and deeply, the time will be nothing compared to your love. Love doesn't have to be physical, you feel it in your heart. You've got other senses, use them to express how much you love the other person. And these days, the internet makes it so easy to communicate with another. You could be miles apart, but the heart surpasses all that distance. Time is precious, but love is the most precious of them all.
@mistika1 (82)
• Romania
15 Dec 12
So, in your opinion, all os possible. In my opinion too, love is so hard to understand, and people react diferent, Are people who can waut, and people who cant.
Never, nowbody can t judge another people reaction.
Only life will say if she wait for something or just waste her time and life.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Dec 12
It depends on which age you are. As for me, I have no patience waiting for someone that long. Time is precious to me. After what has happened to me in the past, waiting for 3 years have made me somehow regret that I waited for nothing. But this could happne to anyone, It is possible as long asboth are true to each other and loves each other for real.
@somupriti (353)
•
4 Dec 12
It depends upon your patience and faith on the matter. So heads up to your friend. Do you think alike to your friend.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
4 Dec 12
Well waiting for a face to face meeting about eight years just unbelievable to me,but I still believe that it can happen to somebody even it is very rare,really wish they will have a good ending.
@habibti320 (925)
• United States
4 Dec 12
If we weren't actually together (married), I don't think I could wait that long. People change and I wouldn't trust that it would be worth it.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
4 Dec 12
NO, I don't have that patience and with my age... it should be now or I will find another.. (Hmm... sound terrifying, LOL) but that's true, i don't like to wait, I have been waiting long enough. This my song for your friend.
I can hardly wait to hold you, feel my arms around you
How long I have waited, waited just to love you
Now that I have found you
You've got the look of love, is on your face
A look that time can't erase
Be mine tonight
Let this be just the start of so many nights like this
Let's take a lover's vow and then seal it with a kiss
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/dianakrall/thelookoflove.html
@spicymary (558)
• Romania
3 Dec 12
You can wait for a lifetime, but you should be sure that it is worthing. Is a risky decision, because so many things can change when you have real contact... but if you want to take this risk... or if you don't meet anybody alike in real life... than it's not only emotional, but also rational, and it can be great.
@mistika1 (82)
• Romania
3 Dec 12
A life time is not to much? just kidding, but as you say, i don t know if is worthing. Is a big risk.
Can be great but can be just a weast of time, but if comebody can and want to wait so long time is not a sign of faith? maybe in ours days something like this happened one to a million. Don t you think so?
@betty1989 (751)
• China
4 Dec 12
if the one is realy I love, I can wait years just for to be with him. At least, it worth me doing this since I love him. But sometimes, i will get impatient since it is quite a long time. I will also think mayby I give up him then I will meet another good guy. thanks God, I donot need to bear this since I am with my boyfriend now. have a nice day.
