Am i bad???

Philippines
December 4, 2012 8:27pm CST
As i woke up this morning, i feel i was empty. I feel i am the worst person. Why is it i am always in bad temper??? I'll tell you the story. Last night, My stubborn sister strikes again. She always went home late. And i locked the door early so that she can't enter our house. When she came, she knocked the door many times. I let her knock the door for 30 minutes until our neighbor also knocked our door because we are already causing them destruction. I open the door, and immediately slapped her. I ask her, where did she go? As, usual, she would always says " i'm just outside the house ". We already keep on finding her near our place but she was not there. And my temper got high!!! I just didn't slap her, i punch her. That punch did not give her just a bruise but a bluish bump beside her left eye. I give her sermon and yet she still giving crooked reasons. She's not afraid of us anymore. After that incident, i noticed i also got bruise in my hand. I feel regret for that had happened. I am a bad sister? I just her to learn her lesson. I hope so. Today, she did not go to school because her bruise got swollen... I am sorry.
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katthevamp
@katthevamp (55)
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5 Dec 12
Yes, you are. It's not your job to punish your sister or make her learn her lesson. If you did that here in the states, you'd go to jail for assault. No matter what she was doing or why she was out, no one deserves to be hit.
Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
5 Dec 12
I agree. You are bad. I'm sure you could say it was Tough love or say something like 'Our Father chastens those of his children whom he loves (when they misbehave)' or maybe the same excuse parents use for spanking (that 'it is better than what they would do to you in a prison'), but that's only excusable if you're her parent. As her sister, your job is to sternly advise her to get better, but cover for her until she changes her ways (or go ahead & tattle on her ... but NO HITTING!) Capice?
kennethfherl14
@kennethfherl14 (70)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
Hi, I forgot to tell you... We don't have parents anymore and She is already under my care. That's why I did that because I don't want her to be like those teenagers who acted like a hoe. Gets?
Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 12
hi kennethfherl y es you are really bad as thats not going to teach her a damned thing but that y ou can punch her out. Shame on you. You are not her mother. Where are her parents? Is she a sister or half sister or stepsister? If I was your mom I would be furious with you. Just what the hell did you think that was going'to accomplish?Is that the way you handle problems by slapping and punching people? If so you will get punched back one of these days. You are a bad person , a bad sister. Y our parents are supoposed to be teaching your sister not you. Why the hell should she be afraid of her own family ? Is that the way you all are trained with slaps and punches? If so your whole family needs to see a mental doctor before one of yo u kills another. shame shame shame.