Daddy's little girl no more
By shielala
@shielala (75)
Philippines
December 5, 2012 7:42am CST
I had a hard time communicating with my father lately. He easily got angry and scolded me whenever we started a conversation. He was not that before. He usually ask me "How are you? Are you doing fine? Did you do you're best today?" That was before. But now, he easily got angry at me. I really don't know why. Can you help me how to overcome this and What are the ways to solved this.
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4 responses
Welcome to myLot. I understand how you feel. Have you already asked him why he suddenly changed? If you can't, ask help from your family members. @shielala (75)
• Philippines
5 Dec 12
There are some issues in our family right now. But, he should not be like that, that he easily got angry or scold at us. Still, we are human and have a heart. I already ask him about that, but he just transfer the discussion and or change the topic and usually turn it towards us. In medical term they say "defensive mechanism" thing.
@5mahi05 (666)
• India
5 Dec 12
How i could just relate with you with this. Lately I am also feeling the same thing with my father. He easily gets angry and yes, Not only with me, but towards all the family members. He raises his voice easily and when he is just shouting, no one can even speak a word. He gets so aggressive and I will even feel scared to look at him.
Those were the days when dad used to be the most loving and kind person on this world and these are the days where I just think nothing but just scared of the thought of him . I am totally worried about this sudden change in him and this sort of a thing is straining the relationships in our family. God alone can save us and keep us loving each other.
@shielala (75)
• Philippines
5 Dec 12
Sometimes i got nervous every time he raises his voice. Yes it's true, God alone is the way to change there attitudes. But, what I worried about is that, it will make me traumatized and about the health of my father. There's only one dad in this world and that's really our dad, no matter what. :)
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
5 Dec 12
I am sorry to hear that. It must have been hard on you that your father changed . Maybe you try to understand him more, maybe he is undergoing some kind of situation that he is so stressed with. try also not to make things that you know will make him mad.
@rajashekar2k12 (173)
• Hyderabad, India
5 Dec 12
hey shielala how r u dont worry about u r dad he may have any office problem or some other tensions so he is showing that on u dont worry the first man who can make her daughter happily is her father dont worry and be silent and think positive .......
