Return Back the Big Favor
By ybarradotcom
@ybarradotcom (84)
Philippines
December 5, 2012 12:58pm CST
We are always blessed to have the loyal and real friend of ours. We're often think to be always kind to each other as treating them our true friend. We love that feeling right? The feeling usually felt with you and your mother's relationship. "Give and Take" kind of love.
We usually think too to give the big favor back from a true friend whenever they saves us in trouble. But unfortunately, there are moments that the more you think it that way, the more the destiny pushes it away!
Have you ever felt it? I sometimes feeling it. And some kind of giving me a little amount of sadness in my personality as a friend.
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7 responses
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
Sometimes what we want to do is not in accordance with our plans. Maybe we can not repay someone according to the time we want, maybe on another day we could do a favor when they really need our help. It is then the meaning of friendship will be felt "a friend in joy and sorrow"
@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
yeah! exactly, that's what I mean about what I've posted.
@rivakwa (56)
•
9 Dec 12
Yea,one good turn deserves another kind of thing.Well,in life there are people who work against this principle.They do not give favour to those who assisted them.I would advocate you give and do not expect much in return.For there are selfish people,ungrateful people.Whatever you do to a fellow man,expect God to reward you.Do not put your expectations in Man.If you have this mindset you will not be taken by surprise and you will not be offended, man cannot be trusted.However there exceptions but they are in the minority
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
6 Dec 12
yes, it happens in friendships. you both grow and change through the years. this can change things between you, sometimes. if it is a true friendship i believe it will endure. if not, you will grow and learn and enter into other relationships you will have. feelings change. commitments hold on no matter what.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
5 Dec 12
I understand what you mean , I am sometime sadden when I see my friend unhappy and I cant help . I wish I could give them what they need but its also out of my reach .
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I know what you mean. But think of it this way: A true friend does not ask for any repayment. Only the love, concern, trust and understanding is all that matters. Maybe you could not return the big favor now, but maybe some other time you will be able to, without your knowledge, ans your friend would be truly grateful for having you as her friend.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
7 Dec 12
It is indeed important to respond to the feeling of supporting or giving to others. I look for ways to support and be kind to my friends. I do charity work and so do most of my friends. So, this feeling of helping others does stay with us. We do feel good when we can help others.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
5 Dec 12
Just be there, for that friend when they need you. They will then be there for you as well.
