Would you cheat your husband or wife?
By concepcion
@concepcion (99)
Philippines
121 responses
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
5 Sep 06
Never because I would never want to hurt him like that
@kaevielf (245)
• China
15 Mar 07
That's a great conviction! I believe that when people have strong convictions in life more often than not they don't just fall into temptation or be swept by the flow. Their conviction serves as an anchor for them to remain in their post. I for one will never cheat on my husband even if he will cheat on me because I believe cheating in its moral perspective is wrong. Righting a wrong by doing another wrong is wrong!
@Capndon (337)
• India
19 Mar 07
no, as husband & wife are only one soul dwelling 2 bodies & cannot cheat each other at all.
@jayanthiinba (245)
• India
17 Mar 07
I can't cheat a person to whom am committed with.. rather, i would love to be with him always.. tats y we get committed..
@uramit2003 (898)
• India
17 Mar 07
well dear it is an intresting question for me.the answers vary fromperson to person. in my opinion i will not. coz if i do that then internally i will never feel happy since she is my part i mean other half. if it is not true then she is not my wife.
so clearly how can one cheat oneself ???????????
@mummyofthree (2715)
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15 Mar 07
I would never cheat on my partner. It is the worst thing to put someone through. If you have feelings for someone else and feel that your marraige is over, you should deal with that first. Until you have leftthem and told them your feelings have changed you have no business starting another relationship with someone else.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
15 Mar 07
it would depend on the spouse. if the spouse is faithful, it would be an unforgivable and inhuman crime to cheat on a faithful person. but if the other person is also enjoying life on the sly, it causes no harm to enjoy life in your own way, too. but the situation is not a very enjoyable one, and its best to separate ways.
@scarletminivet (355)
• India
11 Mar 07
Firstly I dont see any reason to cheat anyone...where my husband is concerned I am very very happy with him...Say if there were some problems in our relation, i would try to work out the relation or else just say lets depart...I dunno Y cheat??
I am just expressing my views....
@Aryanbharani (209)
• India
11 Mar 07
No never.I would never cheat my wife, ofcourse im not yet married, Im just 17.But what sort of a man would want to cheat his wife??? It's like cheating oneself.Morover we should think the other way round, can we bear if our partner betrays or cheats us? They would feel the same way, right? afterall they are humans too!
@palpalsky (899)
• United States
11 Mar 07
well ask me i dont think i can ever cheat anybody as i would die of my gulity. when other person is nice to you .i dont think there is a reason to chat somebody
@ma_lorena (178)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
as much as possible no coz i dont want too. i love my husband, my kids. we have quarrels of course but we patched these things up. if one's cheat his/her partner, relationship will be affected, trust will vanish. i dont want to have a broken family coz my children will suffer. God will guide us..
@rx4life (1930)
• United States
10 Mar 07
No I would not cheat on my husband..First of all I love him dearly..and I made a commitment to him *hundreds*of years ago...whether or not we were married ( we are) I would still not cheat on him.. If for some strange turn of events I met someone and thought I was willing to give up what I have now and try "tasting a bit of the single life"..I would definitely 100% go to him, explain what was going on and tell him I needed to leave him in order to pursue someone else...I can't imagine this ever happening but who knows what our futures hold...but one thing mine holds forever is the love and respect and honesty he deserves...and if he had done some horrid thing to make me want to leave...I would still have to respect myself and my promises...Yes I would still have to live my life as I feel is right...I would give him the respect of telling him the truth..but moving out BEFORE I started anything with anyone else..So in my humble opinion it would never be worth disrespecting either of us in order to be with someone else for a minute, a day, a night or forever...Without respect for oneself and ones partner that relationship is built on shifting sands...not a very stable foundation...
@mdchennai (2129)
• India
10 Mar 07
No way my friend, first of all i am not married. I am in love with a girl and i am going to marry only her. I dont find any reason to cheat a girl whom i loved. I believe that the other word for LOVE is TRUST & TRUTH. Only if we trust and be true to each other, we can maintain our love else there wont be love but only fight and thus leading to separation :(
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
No way, we had a pact with my live in partner never to cheat..
it is so degrading in a relationship if someone will cheat
and the trust will never be brought back to its original state if it is broken
@signup225225 (3)
• Romania
10 Mar 07
Absolutely yes,because...if a woman were good,God have one two.
