why do i feel like this ?
@SIMPLYD (90721)
Philippines
December 5, 2012 11:58pm CST
Here at the office there are some gay office mates. In fact , one of my closest is a gay too. However, I like him because despite being gay, he is so unlike the others who comes to the office seeking so much attention, by greeting in a very loud voice , swaying their hips in exaggeration. My friend is respectable.
However, the others are really so annoying because they are so LOUD in their manner of speaking and even in their dresses which an ordinary woman will not wear! Not that I hate gays, but I want them to behave well and be respectable . 
I cannot help scolding them to better behave since they are in an office not in a bar. 
I cannot help scolding them to better behave since they are in an office not in a bar. 1 person likes this
8 responses
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Our bosses don't hire gays. I guess if they'll hire one or two, they'll have headaches every day of their lives. LOL. My bosses are sometimes strict so there'll be a tendency for them to become wayward and annoy the topdogs. LOL. Some of my colleagues have loud voices during our classes. I sometimes can't tolerate the noise especially if all of us are talking at the same time. I try to speak in a very soft voice and wish they'll realize they're so noisy.LOL.I can't imagine your office,seeing men in dresses.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I guess they don't want to wear their uniforms but they don't have any choice. That's bad for them. If they only behaved well before and wore simple clothings maybe that won't happen.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
I have gay friends too and honestly I am comfortable with them.
Yes, I understand those "others" (gay) who acts with exaggeration.
That is why people criticized them, instead of understanding them (it's their fault)
While gays who acts in modesty and show respect to others gain respect and understanding from society..
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
That's very true Jaiho. Some gays are simply in exaggeration of all that they do and say. That's why they aren't as respected as those gays who behaves well, and maybe they also have those "flirting " moments but they do it in appropriate places. 
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
Yes, the flirting issues cannot be deny (we knew it dear D)
But they know how to handle it- while others don't.
That's why some gays are being condemned...sad thu
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Well, they can always flirt, but when in the office they should be discreet at least, jaiho.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
10 Feb 13
I have had luck with the gay people I know. But, on the other hand, I have also has a very good luck with most of the heterosexual people I know. I say "most" because I guess every genre has different kinds of people. THe hip swaying is something that you can ask one of your gay friends, if it bothers you. I really don`t mind. Woman and men walk in different ways. And in every country and culture people walk and talk in a different way. I have discovered lately watching TV that many men from the US walk swaying from left to right. I thought only obese men did it, but it seems to be cultural. Maybe we should start watching people instead of watching birds
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
12 Feb 13
Well, i learned how to avoid watching them as that gay passes by. I don't look at him and busy myself with what i am doing.
Now, i saw him to have tamed already. I don't know why, but i like him tamed.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I can fully understand them cutie. It's just that when at the office they should be more discreet, specially that others are entertaining clients at their tables.
But i am glad, they now behave properly inside the office, because our big boss told them to, specially that some clients complained about their being so loud while they are transacting their businesses with other employees.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
6 Dec 12
I don't have any gay friend, but hear i see gays on streets during festivals, they usually dance wearing sari, blouse, swing the hips; they are talkative and noisy too.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Yes, gays are talkative and noisy, professor. But at the office they should learn how to behave in a refined manner.
There's always a time for everything, right professor?
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
6 Dec 12
You says you are happy with the behavior of your friend even though he is Gay and you don't have the problem he is being Gay. Good views you have and I like your views on what that person is.
Secondly you said you don't like the behavior of the others who talk loud, who does not have the decency as such and specially their dresses. Do you mean here these staff are ladies. From reading what you have mention I guess they must be the ladies. And you know ladies always likes to talk loudly and like to wear different types of dresses.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
No, i was trying to mean the other gays here at the office. They are so unlike my close gay friend, who behaves respectably.
Although one can laugh at the office, but it should not be boisterously , that others who are entertaining clients are disturbed. As to their wearing dresses, that will be soon remedied because the office uniform will be imposed and the gays will be wearing the uniforms for the males.
@iluvusabado (2560)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
there really are different types of gays. some are those who feel like they're women who are trapped in a man's body. they are your loud office mates. some are just guys who just like guys. he is one of your closest friends.
there really are different types of people. maybe you just are unfortunate to have people you don't like in your office. you can always tell them nicely that they are disturbing some people. just try to say it in the most calm way. try not to offend them. or everything will come back at you.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
Yes, i always try to tell them calmly, but they won't stop . But when i get snap at them, they stop.
I think my being older than them all and being the EA of the big boss, makes them behave also. 
Though, when i do that, i still would joke with them after that. It's just a means of releasing the annoyance and they know me very well when i do that.
Though, when i do that, i still would joke with them after that. It's just a means of releasing the annoyance and they know me very well when i do that. 
@Kaiser_Soze (29)
• Bulgaria
6 Dec 12
I am a bit confused. You complain about women in your office, or gays that wear dresses?
