I begin to like him but am confused
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
Philippines
December 6, 2012 8:38am CST
He's so sweet, whenever we see each other I feel he has something to say I saw it through his eyes..We often see each other weekly.. He told me everything about His works,what's new to his works.. His personal life and everything about him..He even confided to me his complicated love life. He always said to me he's looking for a girl who will truly love him, I am just a listener but am already disturbed. He called me everyday morning,afternoon and before sleep..Am not putting any colors about what he behaved but What does his effort mean?
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@jamieclavero (187)
• Philippines
6 Dec 12
based upon his efforts that you had stated, i think he likes you. follow your instincts. keep your good relationship with him.
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@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hi jamieclavero.Yeah i always keep our good relationship.WE are neighbors back in our province but we never have any chance to get along with before until we meet 3 months ago from a certain gatherings..He knows my family background and same i know him also..hopefully we will be best friends.
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
6 Dec 12
I say that guy is try to attract you. He wants you, he likes you and he in love with you. But he scared to voice it out. One day he will say this magic words to you... I LOVE YOU. I believe you will not upset with what he said, but you mad with him because he takes so long to say those nice magical words to you. 
@challs12 (548)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
There I'm right. I knew it you also expecting something come out from his lips. Hehehe.... Oh how wonderful to hear someone say those words to us. I hope you be patient till your man have strength to talk. Hehehe.... Otherwise, you can start by giving something to him without saying a word or writing. That is enough to give him some strength and confidence. But after you gave him something, try to avoid yourself from him and look how he react. Hehehe... it will be very interesting.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
You are right. I try to avoid him. I didn't answer his calls.. I keep distance already coz some of our friends started teasing us. But one night I accidentally answered his calls we talked almost 3hrs and then he told me he will spend Christmas with me.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hi challs. Hope it will not just Magical words but a real words. You are right, maybe he is hesitant to confide something since he knows me that I am very selective when it comes to a romantic relationships.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
7 Dec 12
At least he trusts you and regards you as his good friend. Who knows what will happen next? Perhaps he will be falling in love with you as time goes by. Many lovers are from friends at first.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hi youless(23322). Yes, am so thankful for the trust and being a good friend to me. I dont want to expect that he will fall in love with me.I just keep our good friendship and i'm so thankful to God.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Your confusion will be answer only with your heart. You maybe like him but not sure if you consider him.
Analyze your feelings if that is love or not. Do not be mistaken if that real of not because it will be your chance to be hurt if anything results to bad faith...
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hello aerous(7942). Yes, its true i still have to analyze and ponder coz its hard to just expect.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
I know that for us, women, we may feel really special if we are given such importance, like sharing his thoughts and all. But you should also learn not to keep your hopes up coz you may never know what he really has on his mind unless he tells you directly that he has slowly fallen in love with you. Just let things be. In time, you'll be able to differentiate between being just friends or if he is trying to really get closer to you.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hello jenny1015(4213)..Yes, exactly.I'm so thankful for the trust that he showed towards me.I always watch my actions and words coz he might think i've drown from his sweetness. I'll just keep the good friendship we have shared right now.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
It could easily mean that he is comfortable talking to you because you are a good listener.
This could lead to a good start between the two of you.
Be warned though of getting a boyfriend that's fresh off from a relationship. He could be fooling himself and is still in love with his past girl friends or what. He might use you, so assess and observe well.
A guy like that is really vulnerable. I don't advice you trust all his words entirely.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hello Aja103654.Nice words, thanks. Right now, am very observant coz i dont want to get hurt at the end,it takes time to know what he really meant.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
6 Dec 12
i would get to know him better. it could turn out to be a romance which time will tell. keep the communication open and see where it leads you.
@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
hello clocks123. yeah time will tell if we are meant for each other. Thanks.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Dec 12
h I am yours. sounds like he does like you and wants to get to know
better and maybe he is falling for
you. So how do you feel about
him, passive, maybe, like him, or falling in love? It ups to
you too really.
you. So how do you feel about
him, passive, maybe, like him, or falling in love? It ups to
you too really.@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
Hello Hatley. I don't want to expect from him that he likes me..Its enough that in his busy schedule he still have time to talk to me everyday.. I admire his effort in asking my advice specially when it comes to his personal life and his works..I know he trust me and i trust him also. Just recently we spent our weekends together.
