Loving real..
By roselavon025
@roselavon025 (133)
Philippines
December 7, 2012 9:25am CST
I have loved for quiet many times already, and have countless teardrops caused by my heart being broken. Sometimes, when I am in a certain point of having myself back into whole again, I just simply love and love again.
I met a guy, way too different from the ones I met before. I can sense that he's courting me. I like him a lot and even think that I love him. The problem is, I'm somehow scared:). Well, I don't want to be though, because I've been hurt many times and have got myself used to with it. For those, who happily leaves with their partners now, when can you say that love is real, when can you say that thing being given to you by someone is really love?
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
7 Dec 12
Im divoreced now. and not really looking for anyone. But you never ever know. i could move to say new york and have someone there. Never know.
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@cobalt20 (1318)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Really? Do you have a crush there in New yorkers? I hope you could have one.
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
The love is real if he always considers your feelings and if he wants you to be happy all the time. I guess you can see his sincerity when you look at him in his eyes. If he can't look at you eye to eye, maybe he's hiding something from you. Better guard your heart. When you fall in love, don't let your life revolve around him. When you love, you still have to love yourself. Don't be scared to love and to get hurt. That's life. It's just normal to be hurt because we have our emotions. Enjoy life...
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Yes, we hurt ourselves emotionally. We're thinking about things too much. We're torturing ourselves. It's time to let go. You have to stand up again and try to build your confidence and you should free yourself to love again. Love is like gambling. You have to risk. Goodluck. May you be happy, healthy and safe always! :)
@roselavon025 (133)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Thanks. It's just normal. Hmmm.. After all, no one can really hurt us except ourselves, specially when we allow people to hurt us. Thank you once again for you advise, I'll really follow that;)...
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
7 Dec 12
Nobody can tell you if it's real love or if it will stay forever.
What more important is to be more picky but also asked yourself how come you fall in love so easily. Is it possible you are just hunger for love? If so ask yourself what is missing in your life, how come you are not able to be with you, pamper yourself, make yourself happy. Only if you can love yourself others will do so as well. If you expect someone else to make you happy that person will run away since it will feel as if you are chocking him.
@roselavon025 (133)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Yes, I know that stuffs;). I've asked myself already about that thing. I don't expect to always be happy in a relationship, just wanted to find the right person to be with. By nature, I think I am a very open minded person, that's why, maybe I failed to realize what should I have to believe in. But along the way, after all my experiences from the past, I believe I have learned somehow:) Thank you so much...
@roselavon025 (133)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Thanks.. well.. I think I should.. After all, loving is such a great thing to do while living:)..
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
7 Dec 12
Yes love can also be sad... we have to get through those to find the right love. Hope you have or will find that person. Take care, see you here soon.
@Pen_Pal777 (245)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
you have been in love many times, so by it, i am sure you'll know what love is. right miss? love is good, otherwise it isn't love at all. love is not broken promises, or dishonesty, or anything that hurts you, it is about those little things he does, put them all together and there it is, it defines love. if he does a million of those little things that makes you happy then it is a love bigger than life. you should know if it is real or not because you have been into it too "quite many times already".
@roselavon025 (133)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
LOL, yes, quiet many times in a small period of time. I'm actually looking for an ideal. Well, anyways, thanks;).. I'll take those words..
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
We all know that even married couples fail after a certain number of years of being together. Life is a gamble, as so is love. But I think having enough time to know the person well will help you to realize if that person is really worth your love.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
7 Dec 12
Have you ever heard this words... "true love waits"? Well, we are not knowing each other personally and I don't know the reasons behind your falling in and breaking your heart in love. Search for your heart if this guy is already there. Don't push yourself to fall in love. I think you had been always inlove with love so that is the reason for your heartbreaks before. Loving someone so true is so good and you will realize it soon when you find your true love. True love never see wrong for it always right. True love really waits and sacrifice.
