Why I don't like to think...

@verolop29 (1096)
United States
December 9, 2012 12:18am CST
I know this may be somewhat crazy but I'm soo mad a my husband. He came over to see us but he only stayed for two seconds. I'm visiting my sisters and parent it's been a very long time since we've seen each other so this morning I've made up my mind to visit them with or without his sayso. My baby sister lives about half an hour away and I wanted to spend time with her on her day off; only I didn't bcuz he told me not to bcuz he wanted to see his girls-not me! While I was visiting my brother and his new wife I got invited to a church Christmas party- ladies only. We just stated the party when he came to the church and he got mad at me for making him come to an all ladies thing at church. Then he said he's gonna go BACK to waco that's wasting gas. I didn't want to argue about it. So I was like ok bye. No kiss; nothing. Not even a hello and we haven't seen each other in a week. I'm telling you, I need time to myself. Five minutes alone and ill be peachy! I get that when I shower so I'm no complaining! He didn't even bother to visit my brother or anything who does that??? Who drives 45 min to see his kids doesn't kiss his wife hello or takes her to a hotel and leaves?? I'm trying to understand all the y's...but it's making me even madder than before...so I'm trying(not that hard!) but I'm trying to get over it. But it's hard. I know he's working and looking for a house for us and all that good stuff but y does he have to be such a man about it?! I work too. Doesn't he see that? Anyways I'm not the kind of person who does stupid things. I'm gonna be fine. Ill cry me a river, build me a bridge and get over it-somehow.
2 responses
chrystalia
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
9 Dec 12
No offense, but at the moment he sounds like an insensitive jerk. I can understand him wanting to see his kids, but hey, he should be a little bit more enthusiastic about seeing you too. My other half and I are apart at least 6 months out of the year--but he emails daily, we talk daily, and when he comes to see me, even if one of my grown sons comes along, he spends his time with me. My sons spend time with me as well, but they usually work out their visits so the other half and I have alone time, given our current living situation. I can't understand why a guy wouldn't want to spend time with his wife. Maybe not all guys are like my buddha bear....
verolop29
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
9 Dec 12
I'm not offended. Not at all. I thought I'd be over it already but I'm not. I love him and all that but he is a jerk with a Capitol J! I may not be it for him anymore....but that's ok! I'm sooo happy ur hubby does that for u!
chrystalia
@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
10 Dec 12
My Buddha Bear is...one in a billion. He has gone through, and still goes through, so much because of me and my problems, but he is always there for me. I am a shut in, and he and my grown sons are basically the only people I can be around, due to severe agoraphobia. If I lost him, I don't know what I would do...... I wish your hubby were like my Bear--every woman deserves one like mine.
prashu
@prashu228 (37521)
• India
9 Dec 12
Oh so sad to her this. But i didn't understand what was his problem.Is he very busy in his work and earning. some men if they have some targets to earn they just don't bother about anything happening around not even wife. They just concentrate on work and nothing else. May be you need to talk to him and make him understand how much you miss him and need him.
verolop29
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
9 Dec 12
I did do that last night but it was kinda late. After he left which was before dark I just got too busy cleaning my sisters house while she worked late. I called him and he didn't want to talk about it. It was just me talking while he looked at bikes-motorcycles- on the other end. So today I'm going to see how much is in "our" account and take some money out. And go shopping and show the kids a good time! And he can't say nothing about it! I've txted him that we r going to chucky cheese, if he wants to come fine if not, hey, it's HIS problem. I'm doing more than my part...