So What's in your Mind regarding Mylot
By sriroshan
@sriroshan (2585)
India
December 9, 2012 12:52am CST
I like reading. it may be news paper, magazine or any good topics online. Here at mylot also I read the post other members have posted before taking part or replying it. If I find I can respond back to what they have posted I take part in discussion.
Not only this I do read the respond other members give on the members post and if feel that I can reply them surely I do it.
Regarding my post I try to respond back to all the responses other members give on my post. Really while reading the responses of members here we come to what actually in their mind when they reply and their views about my post. We all knew each person have the unique way to think, understand and reply back to what we write on the subject. I enjoy reading their views and also take the utmost opportunity to response back to what they have said about my post.
I am sure you may be having the same feeling or thinking like me or may be you have something else. So what's on your mind in this regards.
4 people like this
16 responses
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Dec 12
As a month member, I skipped those love issues as much as possible now. My first two weeks here had been like a baptism of fire by Valentino. LOL. I got drained and exhausted commenting to love issues. (That I never responded back , somehow frustrating for me)
I come back to all the discussions that I posted and one by one patiently responding to the people who commented on my discussion. Even if they commented 2 weeks ago or 2 days ago, as long as they commented. I know how much time and effort each one took to be able to put something there. And I want them to know that I have read and appreciated their thoughts and views. It is my utmost respect for them for whatever they have posted on it. I want them to know that I value their views and their time too.
I want topics on life and education, because life is the reality of today and education is what I do for a living. I want to share something to help, enlighten and suggest to parents or to authors who had been having troubles or difficulties engaging to learning, teaching and special education. Though I got some disappointments too if my comments will not be replied on. I also learned something different in these fields, like the Reading Curriculum that I have read in one of the discussions here posted a few weeks ago.
Finale... Last but not the least...
Mylot has served these for me. 1. Earning, 2. Learning, 3. Motivating, 4. Inspiring, 5. Interesting, 6. Friends Expanding.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Thanks for sharing your views and the feeling, care you have got for other members specially those who had commented on your post. Like you I had commented back on the responses other member had given on my post. Almost all responses I think I have answered back. I know like us other members also spend their time to comment on our post and its become our duty as such to respond back to what they have written on our post.
1 person likes this
@deazil (4730)
• United States
9 Dec 12
Mavic, positive and inspiring as usual! You are a very good mylotter, also my friend. I have enjoyed all your posts. I've learned things from you and value our friendship. You're definitely an asset to mylot! And this is another intelligent, well thought out post of yours.
coablt20, I just saw a discussion the other day about people who don't read discussions fully before they respond. And if you comment on others responses you're helping to further the discussion. This is what the guidelines define as "quality". And Mavic is a very positive force in mylot. She inspires us all!
1 person likes this
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
9 Dec 12
Hi!
I'm neither a kind of a reader nor a writer but when the topic gets my interest, I get motivated. In all of my posts, I really do try to respond back to others' comment but sometimes not all are being responded because I rarely spend so much time with my computer now-a-days. So usually I just respond to the first that attracts me.
In my opinion, every member should at least find time to respond to the discussions he or she have started. Not only because we can earn from it but more importantly, the ideas that we share :)
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Dec 12
so true.. and.. it is more practical to have few discussions so you will have time to get on it from time to time
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
There are many ways one get motivated in their life and here at Mylot you said you get motivated by reading the post of your interest and then you write your comment accordingly. Thanks for sharing your views. When we have time then only we will log in here to take part in discussion, other wise we give more important to other work we have in hand
1 person likes this
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
14 Dec 12
I think you're right on the money with this. I do the same thing. I do enjoy reading everyones discussions and replies. and I always look to reply to the one that interest me. And I always try and make sure that I have replied to all responses from my discussions.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
14 Dec 12
When we read what other have mentioned in their discussion it's become easy for us to respond to what other have mentioned or what they expect from other members or what exactly they want to say in their post or discussion
1 person likes this
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
25 Dec 12
You are correct and when we have something common to say and what you write is understandable I am sure other people will respond back to on what you want to say or what you have said. Merry Christmas to you inertia4
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
9 Dec 12
That's so good. sometimes i end up reading and don't give any responses at all. I want to earn too. so have respond at the same time. But frankly i enjoy reading than writing responses.
1 person likes this
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
sishy7 thanks for sharing your views. Really once we start reading different comment being made on the members post we enjoy them and it makes us thinks and appreciate the other members views.
1 person likes this
@deazil (4730)
• United States
9 Dec 12
sriroshan, that is exactly what I do and how I feel. It's good to know there are others who feel the same way. I'm interested in what others have to say, responders as well as discussion authors. Although I don't start discussions I enjoy reading the posts and responses of others. So many different viewpoints to consider and people can present things in a way I never would have thought of. Too many people don't read the responses of others. This leads to redundancy and the poor author must read through the same things over and over again. There have been a few discussions on the subject and 90% of members said they don't read others' responses. It takes time but if a discussion has pages and pages of responses, I go on to something else if I don't have the time. I think this is the one guideline that is constantly broken. Your topic has made me feel glad because others have criticized the rule of reading responses before posting your own. Good topic.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hey deazil what a co-incidence even you also have the same views as I am. Really we are more enthusiastic about other feeling when we are expressing our feeling about our loving site Mylot. Almost everyone must be having the same feeling. Good that people from different part of the world have the positive feeling about Mylot. This positiveness in us will help us to spend more time and take part in discussion sharing our views.
1 person likes this
@deazil (4730)
• United States
9 Dec 12
Yes, I've expressed this several times in other discussions. The last discussion was titled something about "do you read others responses" and so many that responded said things like "for me a big NO", "no or very rarely", "no I never look to see...". I was surprised and dismayed. To me it shows that the guidelines are outright ignored unless deletion or banning is involved and that very few people care about what anyone else has to say. There were some that said they did read "some", "a few" or "all" of the responses. In my response I quoted the guideline that says to read all responses before responding and the author commented to me how about if there are over a hundred responses? That would take up a lot of time don't you think so? I told her to ask GAA why that rule is there. And some one else said input is input no matter if it's already been said. That's exactly why the rule is there - to prevent that! Some of the reasons are ludicrous. And in another discussion I read that someone said they only read the title and go from there. So it's always refreshing to me when I see someone who does care enough to read and not be redundant. A person like that can be relied on to make quality discussions, comments and responses. Er, I'll get off my soapbox now.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
10 Dec 12
Srisohan... You are talking to a mentor here. The woman knows a lot (---Miss Deazil ) I think she owns mylot...
@SuperShames (780)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi sriroshan.
I will be honest. I have no patience at all. I do go through the discussion carefully but I dont read all the comments posted by the other users. Apart from that I am pretty much the same. I also reply back to all the comments and replies that I get for my posts. Anyways have a nice Sunday and keep on mylotting...
-=SuperShames=-
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Like you sometime even I do the same thing, specially when I have little time to spend online or when I am tired and just want to reply to some discussion only. But when I have cool mind and no other work I do read the other members discussion also. But I never post my comment on any members discussion before reading what they have written in their post/ discussion
1 person likes this
@SuperShames (780)
• India
24 Dec 12
Hello Aunty.
Was just doing a check up on the comments I got for my posts and saw this one after three weeks. And I would still say that I am too lazy to go through the entire discussion. By the way I was just curious on who exactly is sriroshan ?? Anyways have a nice day ...
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
25 Dec 12
Thanks for responding back on my comment. And do you know when we comment back on each other comment it creates sort of bonding between us. Have nice Merry Christmas
1 person likes this
@manayonboy (511)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I prefer reading what is post here and then share my idea about what i read. Im not good in making articles but i love reading articles and putting comment on it.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
10 Dec 12
That's what we all have to do because sometime you may find in some post content of it does not match at all to the title. Like some books have attractive title but when we start reading it content is not worth reading for the money we spend to get that book
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I do the same thing.
I read others post and if I feel I have something to share or contribute then I won't hesitate to post a sub-comment to their boxes.
That's the best way to inter-act and have fun with other mylotters.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Inter acting with each other by taking part in discussion here at mylot is nothing like discussing the things with other members of same family (Mylot). When we have the feeling of nearness we tend to spend more time with loved person (Mylot)
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
9 Dec 12
Not to be haughty, but I can't contribute to anything other than me ... you show me that maybe I can 'expand my conversation-horizons' (at least on myLot), and join other people's discussion-threads.
I don't think I'm gonna do that unless either 1) the thread is already the Best Response (in which case I SHOULDN'T start a new thread) or 2) the discussion makes me curious what other people think & I feel like responding to one of them.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hey this is very nice of you and thanks for sharing your views. I like the way you want to expand your conversation here at Mylot and ready to join in other members discussion, this is what we have to do my friend.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 12
I love to read but I love to write so sometimes I read quickly and then write.
take the time equally reading and writing.
but the worst for me is that I have a lot of time here but still manage from time to time to write because they still work.
but here I am nice and fun if I will always plant to write.
nice day!
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hey this is fantastic but keep in mind when you read and response it should be perfect. I am sure with your experience you must be good at writing. Like you and me almost all the members feel free and enjoy that part in discussion.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
9 Dec 12
Many things frankly. Started understanding how can we look at a problem from different angles. The possible solutions . I read the discussion before responding. Otherwise i just don't respond. If i cant read all the responses then i will read at least the first page responses. I like to do it that way. I don't like half work.
At times i feel so bad and dull after reading some responses , like one i read yesterday .About a mylotter who is all alone at 64 years of age she only have cats with her and no one else. Hmm i was not able to read any other discussions for some time. I started thinking about life seriously. I cant help it. Mylot does influence our thoughts.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
That is the nice thing you are doing as if we start commenting on other members post our views before reading what they have mentioned I feel our response will not hold good.
We are here at Mylot like a International family who even though have the different cultures, speaking different language, having different thinking, here at Mylot we make the point to share the views at one platform.
@Gracia2010 (282)
• Thailand
9 Dec 12
I aslo love my lot, i like putting up new discussions and interesting topics that i am sure everyone will come and response on it... I love when people replying and creating a thread of discussions and make the topic i made alive and make everyone to come, read and write down their opinion and thoughts..
You right that each one of us has own way of thinking and on dealing on every situation and so i still take each and every response a helpful one weather it is a good or bad comment, it still help me to build a nice conversation...:)
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
10 Dec 12
That's the spirit we all mylotter should have in them, I knew everyone is having it. But when we make in our mind that we are going to write something interesting which other members will love to read it and not only particular post but whenever we post our another post they surely will visit our post and comment on it.
The way we express our feeling in form or writing surely will vary with other person way or style of writing.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi friend, good to know that you are interested in reading. I too like reading, but now a days i don't have more time for reading due to my busy schedule. Some times i will read other persons reply while posting in mylot, but most of the time i will read out the topic and place my reply. Always i read all the replies in my topic and place my comments based on it. As you mentioned we will enjoy a lot while reading our replies and come to know about various thoughts and opinion
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
Sometime when I have little time to spend online I also read the main post and write my views on it. As I am working part time online, I can spend very less time online that too only after finishing my house work. But even then I make a point to comment on at least 5 to 10 different new post and reply to the discussion other members had posted on my post.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I am only a month here and really enjoying mylot everyday as I could. In my first two weeks, I had made 23 discussions and all of them got responses and I am so happy for that. For this last two weeks, I focused myself in responsing discussion that interests me. It is so nice to read and know the idea of others and learn some facts too. Mylot is really awesome!
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
10 Dec 12
Nice to read that you are enjoying your journey here at Mylot. Even though you are new here I like your responses. Surly the way you response to other post though simple they are effective also.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I do have fun reading posts that interest me. I am more inclined to post some advice to those who feel either depressed or lost. Though I am not saying I am a guru, but I just feel like sharing my own personal experiences with them and hopeful can shed some light.
I rarely start my own discussion. I just usually make one when I really have the urge to blurt out what I feel about something or someone.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
To read what other writes is always good since by doing so we get lots of information and knowledge also. Not only this each members have their own way of presenting their articles and it makes us to share our views on what they have written rather then start or post our own discussion.
@betty1989 (751)
• China
9 Dec 12
yes, here in mylot, I can share my views with others and response to others. I can know how different perspectives people have. Also, I can learn something new here since there are friends all over the world. have a nice day.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
9 Dec 12
I can say Mylot is the place where we can give the knowledge to other and get the knowledge from other. This is the place of "Views" exchange which we can rarely find in our real life that too with people from different part of the world at one place. I am sure you will agree with me in this regards