Should we have rules in relationships?

Kenya
December 9, 2012 9:20am CST
I don't believe in relationship without rules. Many relationships break because there are no rules binding them. Many people just relax to see their partners to mess and that will be their end of that relationship. Should we really dwelt on the wrong things or set on better ones?
4 responses
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I agree with you on this. Relationships should be bounded by some set of rules or agreements. I'm not saying that they should be put on paper or something. Just a mutual understanding of what they should do or not do in order to make the relationship work.
@cvbr71 (31)
• India
9 Dec 12
Relationships from by way of some kind of affection with others.such relations are taken serious note of and understand the kind of relation with him/her.Such relations should be binding in one way or the other and should not be taken casually.One should analyse each other's relation and then go ahead further.If the motive of the relationship is to mess with each other for a period of time without any direction, your life will be at risk.I opine that the relationships are those that leads to permanent binding of relation between each other for leading a peaceful life.
• India
9 Dec 12
Hi friend, i don't think we must set rules for a good relationship. Trust and understanding is important for all the relationship, if we have both of them we will keep our relationship for a long without issues. We must adjust and compromise with silly issues and avoid EGO
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
I am always in the middle. Too much rules can be too much opposing to anyone. It can lead to quarrel too for the both of them thinks that they can't do anything by their own. But too much freedom can be bad too for the one will not know if what he/she doing can be fine with his/her partner. I am more into thinking that true love knows the right things and it doesn't need rules for you who are loving someone truly have your own principles in your life and that principles can be your own good rule by yourself and not by your partner or relationship. The moral obligation is what important and having that to ourselves will make us the best we can be. And if we are thinking about the best then we will not look for the worst.