People respect you when you are rich?
By wongchoiyee
@wongchoiyee (7413)
Malaysia
December 9, 2012 10:44am CST
I was in a IT college ten years ago, but I left after 7 months, I met many rich friends, after that I went to Secretarial college. One day back from working I bumped into my friends from IT college, they seem very nice to me, asking me this and that, they thought I am a rich girl before, but I can say I am at middle working class, seems to me I think that people like to know rich people and get along with them, like they can take them to anywhere in their life. Do you think so?
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31 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Dec 12
I definitely noticed that people really respect more the rich.
They watch how you dress how you behave in society and how much money you have.
If you have more soon sneak up on you and you become friends and not have to be.
Real friends understand them in more ways, if you're in trouble if we help you.
thank you for this discussion.
nice day
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
9 Dec 12
Exactly people just see how they dress up and all. But they are not real friends .They wont be with us when we are in trouble.
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@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
Well, sure being rich is one way of getting people to respect you. But for me, just by the quality of our behavior towards other people, you can gain respect. I don't know if it's the people i met, but most of them are rich and they still respect me because the way i am. But really, hanging out with rich people makes your life better because you can do more stuff than you can because you don't have the money to do it when you doesn't have the cash.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
10 Dec 12
I am not rich, but I am sure I earned some respects... I hope.. hmmmm am I? lol
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
We all like and respect friends with good behavior, be them rich or not rich. If our rich friends enable us to do more positive things, that is also good :)
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 12
Hi wongchoiyee, it's normal that in this money talks in society world, money and power are always be the priority for most of the people to pick friends. They hope they could get advantages from rich friends. As what I know wealthy people like to entertain friends with food and drinks in clubs or high class restaurant. That'why they always have lots of followers. They also would give discount cards or free vouchers to the followers to get branded products Such phenomena could be seen often in movies. And this happens in real life as well.
Happy posting
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
It is great if you can take part in it occasionally. Beware not to do it too much too often because you could gain weight and reduce your savings pretty fast :))
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 12
Lol... I'm completely not the one among those who try to benefit themselves by knowing rich people. I like to make friend with people who have common interests with me. It's a great pleasure to get along with authentic friends sharing our feeling and view in every day life harmoniously I'm not rich as well and of course I'm not in the list for those tend to be friend with rich people certainly
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@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
10 Dec 12
And the truth is,the rich people will attract more person,this is the reality of our society.But regarding to people will get more respect when they are rich then I do not think so,people crowd around rich people the one season is they can get benefit from the rich people,but the respect is fake in many situation.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
Most people getting around rich people are those with thoughts of getting benefits out of their relationship. Rich people with good integrity do, however, gain respect from their peers.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 12
Yeah, these business men are clever enough to get benefit. They are not looking for real friendship. Just The more rich people he know, the easier he is able to dig up as much money as he could from wealthy people to join in his investment, etc.
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@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
Users are everywhere. And sometimes it's not respect but they're afraid that if they become rude to this person, her life will be miserable because that person is rich. I remember back in high school. The bullies in our school are the richest and teachers are not even doing anything about it even if they see these rich bullies bullying other children. Their parents are donating some of the facilities in our school that when they go to our school, you can see from the teachers that they are respecting them and very careful with their words when the bullies' parents are asking about their children.
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@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
That is a reality all right. Often students who become bullying victims move to another friendlier school because of it. That happens and it is sad.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Dec 12
Hi wong!
Good discussion! (This discussion figures in mylot digest dt. 10.12.12)
Yes, your observation seems correct. It is a human tendency to make contact with those who are 'something' either they hold any important position/post or are wealthy. People know that connecting with 'these kinds' of people could help them solve some their problems.
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@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
10 Dec 12
Well definitely wealth inspires everyone because with money you can buy anything in this and when you sit and walk with rich peoples, others think that you have good connection with them so they can be in touch with rich peoples through you.
Money money money, I dont like money but its true that money is everything in our materialistic world.
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
10 Dec 12
Well, one of the secrets of being 'rich' is to surround yourself with 'rich' people. When you surround yourself with rich people, you become one of them (i.e. basically, you act like you should have more money, and more money rolls in )
That's why the credit-system is good for most people (glory to the employers' Lord )
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@Arieles (2473)
• United States
10 Dec 12
Well, I think people are nicer to rich people, but I don't necessarily think they are respected more. I think they might be nice to them, because they want a piece of the pie. I read a quote once, "a rich man is just a poor man with money." Money doesn't make a person, their character makes them who they are.
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@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
10 Dec 12
I noticed that most people have more respect, or fear rather, to rich people. But for me, I have some criteria in deciding who are the people I'm gonna respect the most. But generally when I don't know a person really well then I respect him or her.
Respect is earned as they say so I really do look on people who already proved themselves, I respect people not because of money but because of who they are.
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@franseman (516)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
For me people earn my respect for what they do, how they deal with other people. Being rich doesn't automatically earn my respect. I know lot of rich people with such bad attitude that they don't deserve any respect at all. So for me it's defenitely not about being rich at all.
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
some people who is rich likes to be with someone who is rich too.. they tend to like each other because they think they live in the same circle in which are they belong too..that is a reality here in our environment we live in.. and for that matter they will respect the people they think that belong to them.. in your case the friends who is rich maybe really genuine to see you that`s why you feel that they are nice to you.. not all rich are mean.. some really have a good heart..
@lsjapdoit (651)
• Indonesia
10 Dec 12
Agreed. Good friends are all around us, so are mean friends. They may be rich as well as not rich. In fact friendship depends more on one's personality than the amount of money he has.
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@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
10 Dec 12
I had the opportunity to meet a lot of people in my life...the rich, the not so rich,the middle class and the poor and the poorest and I can tell you one thing the poor and the poorest have a high sense of honesty and community the rich paid you for your work and they think they did what is expected by society...the middle class are the worth ones they think every one owes them something yes just go and figure! at the end of the day I never got to be a wealthy person but I Am rich in other aspects of my life and I Am loved and respected from those people that matter.
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
10 Dec 12
LOL, I really wish I could answer that from expeience but I
really can not...I have never had much experience being around
rich people...and if I have I would have to disagree with you
because the people I've been associating with certainly know
that I am not rich...and theynhave treated me the same...
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Dec 12
Hi friend, some people are in this sort, not every one like this. Smart people always gives importance to the characters and kindness of a person, they don't give importance to the money and social status.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
10 Dec 12
How did you know that they thought you were rich? Did they ask you your bank account savings? Were you wearing flashing diamonds, with sapphire and emerald? Were you wearing Gucci and carrying Hermes or Chanel bag? I just wonder what made you conclude that they thought that you are a rich girl?
just really wondering....
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
10 Dec 12
Actually, it really happens and I think many young people nowadays wants to befriended those who are rich and influential and that idea really is not good at all! When I was in college or shall I say when I was a student, my classmates and schoolmates and my teachers respects me well not because I am rich but because I am smart and I know some other student knows me and seeking for my help because they think of me as a source of help. I gained many friends and even I didn't finished my college, they are still my friends. My point is that anyone can gain respect because he/she is respected and of course everyone needs to respect anyone whether he/she is rich or not.
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