When Someone Close To You Talk To You Like Nothing Happened
By ybarradotcom
@ybarradotcom (84)
Philippines
December 9, 2012 12:35pm CST
I know a man. He and his wife was in a little bit kind of conflict. Its been about four to five days of no talking. I don't know why they're into that but one thing make them be good again. Its when the man is sleeping and his wife wake him up saying "Wake up, we ought to attend in a praying meeting." After then, the man woke up saying, "Yeah! I will." I think the man is in a little confused like, "Why she's talking to me, we're not that okay. Hmmm. Whatever it is, at least she talks to me at last and we're okay now. Yes!"
I say so cause I've been in that situation.
Way back when I was 2nd year High School, last subject, me and my seatmate were in a conflict and we almost hurt each other (good thing we didn't), we separate our chair and even our teacher that time noticed why our chair was apart and we like teasing each other. Surprisingly, the next day, in the morning, she started talking to me the time I got arrived at school and telling me some jokes like nothing happen and I'm confused that time whether, "Am I gonna ignore her 'cause of what happened yesterday?" or "Am I gonna talk to her too like nothing was really happened?" And I chose the last one thing like, for the sake of friendship and for I not having any enemy no more.
Does this happens everytime? Or I just notice it happened?
2 responses
@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
9 Dec 12
After a time people say sorry and try to forget the bad things happen. You can choice to talk about the things what you argued about to improve your friendship. Just don't end up with a new argument.
But sometimes it's ok to leave small things what cause conflict between two friends.
@ybarradotcom (84)
• Philippines
9 Dec 12
for the both situation happened in my discussion, there is no Sorrys is said. it just happened smoothly like nothing really happens.
@csabaholcz (843)
• Hungary
9 Dec 12
Oh, yes I didn't mean to say. You didn't say sorry it happened inside. Released the anger and decided to don't let all end up like this.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
29 Mar 13
Hi friend, silly issues are quite common in our life, we don't give importance to them, forget about this kind of silly fights and talk with your friends and family members. As we know our life is short, we don't get any benefits with this kind of quarrels. Good to know that your friend forget about the issue and talk with you casually, your decision is also correct. It is not a good thing to ignore a person for silly reason even after the person forget about the issue, so have a great time with your friend and enjoy your life