Do you envy women younger than you?

I think at times I do envy younger women in the sense that they have less responsibilities, more freedom and are generally still able to make great choices in their life to go in a certain direction. It is sad though that a lot of young women are easily influenced as emotions and feelings run high at that age. I think that men feel that it is an accomplishment to be able to go after a younger woman who is young. That they are able to be with an attractive person who is a lot younger than them.

I do feel exactly the same way as you do. I do envy younger people sometimes because, they could dream again. Cause sometimes I regret that I studied hard in high school and then didn't use it in college and in real life. I have a niece who is obviously younger than me who has a boyfriend now and the funny thing about me is that my niece beat me when it comes to having a relationship because until now I do not have a boyfriend and now i am around my 20s. She is like 16 and really in a serious relationship. And just like what you said she is too very fond of being with his boyfriend everytime. It's like her world is revolved around him. Very innocent when it comes to love. I wished when I was like 17 I got a boyfriend already but maybe it is not the time for me. I just have to wait patiently. About men preferring those women younger than you. It's really true. Because they are easier to talk to and men can be superior to them

Yes, sometime i do envy them, youthfulness in a woman is something deserve our envy, once upon a time, everyone did possess it. May be you are right, younger woman is easier to manipulate, that may well is one of the many reasons men like and prefer younger woman other than she usually can provide a more pleasurable sight to men eyes. It is just normal that men like a woman who look prettier and sexier, part of our natural DNA makeup, nothing much we can do to change it.

Maybe some man wanted young girls because they look gorgeous , fresh and curious and can easily be deceived . Sometimes man do everything just to win the trust of a teenager and when trust is earned this is the time time the bees will invade the roses. Roses are carefree and responsive to stimuli.

Hi Aja! Every person has their own preferences, weakness, mind-set. Everyone differs on their priorities in life and principles they follow in life. Personally, I don't envy anyone. Sometimes if do, I remind myself that God fearfully and wonderfully made me. Envy comes when we dont esteem ourselve ( not so much as over self love). It is a distraction from the devil to make our lives miserable and keep us away from what God wants for us. I believe that there is a man appointed by God for a woman. We only need to trust Him to lead us. :D

before i got wiser i thought the younger women were ahead of me,but i know that someone who wont appreciate me doesnt deserve me.i think its good to like yourself as we are in all aspects,from the way we look,dress, talk,behave and progress in life because you always have something that person wishes they had.if you envy them for their small body,they probably wish they had your nice hair,you may envy someone because they have nice dresses and they wish they had the lovely child you have so never put yourself down ,you always have something someone else envies.

I am 36 and I don't envy women who are younger than me. I am happy to be 36 and I don't dream about being younger. When I was 18 I had friends who were older than me (in their mid-20's) and they envied me because I was young. When I was 25 I had friends who were in their 30's and they also envied me because I was only in my 20's. Today where I am in my 30's I find it hard to understand that they felt way about me, because when I think ahout the time when I was younger I think about a time where I was more insecure and a time where I has less experience, and I prefer to be where I am today with the knowledge and the experience that I have today.

It's true that some men prefer younger women, but I don't think it's because they're easy to manipulate. And 'young' doesn't necessarily mean a teenager. Just younger than the man's age. And yes, we do find younger women in better shape and appearance than older ones, but again, this isn't being shallow. It's just a preference, which is just similar to others who like older women. It's their preference. Let's face it, one of the things that attracts us is the appearance of the person. We aach have different taste, but I think most prefer what society stereotypically consider as pretty and sexy. And these characteristics are usually found in younger women. I guess people make the mistake of equating young with immature and old as being mature. It isn't necessarily so.

Like what you wrote, some men are too shallow and not far different from animals. Younger women are easier to manipulate and older men knows very well how to attack their prey. Well...most men who are looking for younger women only wants fun..(not sure)

hi, for me,of course not because i came from that age and i am finish that stage,so now i am enjoying the age that i have,though we all know that most of men more wanted young women because they said its still fresh,then for me it will depend of man having that kind of attitude.

In this world there are the various of men and every men has different attitude. Why you must envy to other women. If you envy, you look have not confident in your self. Every women has each superiority. So don't worry about younger lady and other women. You must show your superiority than other women. This matter can cause many men liked you.

Now I am not that old as I will be 25 in a week. Surprisingly enough, I see a lot of women from 18-29 who I think are reckless or have no respect for themselves. I am not one of them, but I tend not to be as idealistic I see a lot of women in this age group. I don't envy them at all. The older men I am friends with are either men my husband works with or men I know through family and other friends. In thinking of male friends I have ranging from 32-60, I know a few of them say they like younger women because a lot of younger women aren't as set in their ways as older women, professional women, etc. Therefore they believe there is more to grow with the relationship rather than not someone who is already set on how it should be. Now I do have one male friend who only dates older preferably single mothers who kids are all grown up and out of the house. He believes women only look like truly beautiful healthy women after child birth.

I envied their time and their courage to adventure in life in such a different way. When I studied a special course somewhere in Asia, I happened to meet friends from different countries. they usually hang out in my hotel for free coffee and chat after class. I admired them for their courage to go to different country because they are still so young. I admired their courage to go to parties with some strangers when I was just there at home talking to my sisters back home. arrgh such a boring life LOL. hahahaha. I told them .. I should have done this adventure when I was still younger like you. I am glad that your parents allowed you to go and travel on your own. But other than that, I don't envy them anymore. I know I have my reasons, I know I have my own ways. I know who I am. About your discussion questions... I don't know if men really prefer mature ones. some yes some no. Of course we are humans we have different tastes and preferences. But you know what is good now that I am older than these younger women? I can decide on my own now, talk different topics without hesitations and i can not be rattled by intrigues and criticisms. I can not fall anymore to cliff of doubts and confusion because I know how to balance now.

I envy younger women a lot. I remember the time when i was younger and skinnier, now im just fat anD sad. Sometimes I just want to get in a time machine and then go back to being 14. No boobies, no big butts, no problem. I agree with younger women as reckless and careless, it's probably because it's their first time to experience so called falling in love and are still not sure about how they should treat bits things and how they should be treated. As they say, the first ones are also the crazy ones. I dont know why men go for younger women, maybe it's because most of them are still virgins at that point every man wants a virgin, I have no idea what difference it makes. My mom had her first experience with my dad, and she shared to me that the anatomy of the reproductive part of a virgin has the same tightness as a non-virgin one. And yes I talk to my mom about these things haha

absolutely not.in fact,i pity them. for one thing,they have more to fear from the dating scene than i did- what with idiots with cell cams that can tape them without them knowing. next thing they know,their relationship could be on the web. for another they are young.and in some ways unknowing what some men are capable of doing to them.(and no,this isn't a male bash.but some guys like some women can be callous). i am perfectly content with my age.and if a man wants to leave me for something younger,well good luck to her.she's gonna need it.

To tell you frankly I do not get envy seeing the younger women. I knew they are more beautiful and energetic compare to me. But I go back to my olden days when I was young and energetic. I knew I was beautiful when I was young and even today also. I don't think that today's younger generation lack experience because I can say today young ladies are more smart and knew to handle the situation.