We take things for granted.
By Kalyni2011
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
India
December 11, 2012 1:09am CST
A[b] constantly worried mom, after you lose her, you feel she was the most caring mom.
A strict dad, after you lose him, you feel he was the most concerned dad.
An annoying brother, after you lose, you feel he was the most concerned and best brother.
A rude sister, after you lose, you feel she was the most concerned; may be stupid sister.
A very close sticky friend, after you lose, you feel he/she was the most concerned person for you in this world.
A possessive lover, after you lose, you feel he/she was your life/your love.
A demanding wife, after you lose, you feel she was the most concerned person in your life.
A complaining husband, after you lose, you feel he was your entire world.
[i]So never take all things for granted, because life never gives a second chance.
Just live and love all unconditionally, so that there is no chance of losing.[/b]
Please share your views and comments on this.[/i]
Kalyani
December 11 2012.
December 11 2012.4 people like this
12 responses
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Very true, this is how people usually do, they usually don't give importance to people or things until it's already gone. I admit sometimes i used to be like that to my parents but when i started to live on my own i realize how much i need them and how much i wanted to be with them.
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@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 12
This is the nature of human and life itself. You may treat them as nice as you can, but most people would still feel they need them, for example thing to do with them and etc.. But When they are there, you just don't find the need to. My advice is just to keep things together because it's life.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
jezrose and superbox
I thank you both for your views on my views in this discussion.
@nikenprabaningsih (70)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 12
Take care everybody that surrounding you, don't be selfish, and don't try to lead the other one ,
Hear, , try to hear the other ones, make your life complete, enjoy life, and love everybody can make you long, long life,
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
12 Dec 12
Dear Maa,
Very true lines! It is said that when we have some great people in our life we really don’t understand their value. We realize their value only after losing them. Very few people understand the great people in their life. There is a proverb in our native language “Muttathe mullakku manamilla” which means there is no fragrance with jasmine flower which grows in our courtyard.
Very true lines! It is said that when we have some great people in our life we really don’t understand their value. We realize their value only after losing them. Very few people understand the great people in their life. There is a proverb in our native language “Muttathe mullakku manamilla” which means there is no fragrance with jasmine flower which grows in our courtyard.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
Sree beti
Thanks for your views and the say about Jasmine, so true.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
12 Dec 12
I think that we too often take other people foer granted. we just assume that they will always be with us. when we lose that person we are devastated and so often we will ne filled with thoughts of how we did not show that person their true worth to us. it is not too late as long as er are willing to take a chance with that peson. we should let our feelings be known,.@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
Thanks for sharing your views sender, I honor it; but sorry for my late comments.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
I think you are right friend.
Thanks for your views, sorry for late comments.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Very well said Kalyni and i agree to it entirely. 
Some of us don't realize how much a person means to them, until the person leaves this earth unexpectedly. Although for those , who got sick and has to be taken cared of, you still have time to make up for them by taking care of them.
Everyday we should treasure as if it is always the last. Forgive if you must and try to understand that all humans err.
Some of us don't realize how much a person means to them, until the person leaves this earth unexpectedly. Although for those , who got sick and has to be taken cared of, you still have time to make up for them by taking care of them.
Everyday we should treasure as if it is always the last. Forgive if you must and try to understand that all humans err. 1 person likes this
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
Yes Dina
As human all have weaknesses, all err.
Thanks for your views, sorry for late comments.
As human all have weaknesses, all err.
Thanks for your views, sorry for late comments.
@prudhviraja (117)
• India
11 Dec 12
Yes mam, In this world we have to enjoy the life. We have got a chance to live in this earth. A life, every one expecting that without selfish. But now a days people are respecting each other. We now the value of a man or woman only after losing them. So let us respect each other to have smooth and good life. Now the days is 12.12.2012. Good night.
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@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 12
Well, most people or may i say human in this world take things for granted. I myself do that. I think it's some kind of human nature. We would appreciate something when we lost it.
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@shion13 (85)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 12
i really agree with this. my mom is worrying me a lot back then, but now that i live alone by myself i felt lonely. now i used to it though, but still i feel that my mom is really an important person for my life since we argued a lot in the past. my mom is like my friend though. thanks for sharing those words! making me being thankful for having so many people around me :)
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
15 Jan 13
Welcome to mylot and my discussions
I can really feel how much you love your mother and how much she loves you
