How can i move on from "the one"
By nehalkuul
@nehalkuul (68)
India
December 11, 2012 4:27pm CST
Yes , I broke up with my girlfriend ,who i now realize that she was the one.
Few details we broke 2 years back and on n off in touch with eachother and i want to get back with her sooo bad but she inspite of having feelings for me she wont get back with(given few reasons).
Help guys what should i do ? I never wanted to say " one that got away"
5 responses
@nicanorr (1789)
• Philippines
11 Dec 12
Examine yourself. The fault could be in you. Are you selfish in giving her freedom? This could be one. Give her all the liberty to stay free; to chart her own destiny because when you go deep into the relationship, she'll attend now to new matters like attending to home chores, going into motherhood, etc. Prove to her that you're sincere and that you need her till eternity. Then upon seeing that things are set up, propose to marry her. She probably sense that you're not ready; that she'll have no future staying with you. Have a good day!
@nehalkuul (68)
• India
11 Dec 12
She has given me a reason that her family wouldnt accept me for marriage( religion problems)
@Bluebell18 (636)
• United States
11 Dec 12
She sounds like the one that totally got away. If she's worth getting back, I would fight tooth and nail to get her back somehow. Us goils like that gooshy stuff! Woo her! Romance her! Come on, Nehalkuull, be macho!
@nehalkuul (68)
• India
11 Dec 12
Mate, I have tried so hard for these 8 months to get her. Tried every single thing she likes and said every single thing she wants to hear but she ends up giving me an excuse for not meeting because she knows we'll get back together if we do :S
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
If both of you still have the same feeling towards each other, what seems to be holding you back? Are here reasons even valid enough? I think that you should have a real good talk with her and express how much you truly love her. I can only hope for the best.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
All I can say is that, don't ever give up. Since she means a lot to you, do your best to get her back. I am not a man so I don't really know how you guys do it.
Prove to her how much you love her. Your ex I think is just afraid of getting hurt that's why she won't meet with you and get back together with you.
@ZoeJoy (1392)
• United States
12 Dec 12
A relationship needs to be mutual. If she doesn't feel the same towards you as you do towards her, then perhaps you need to let her go. Perhaps you need to examine the reasons why she won't get back with you and really listen to her. There is basically nothing you can do if she doesn't want to get back with you, except move on with your life. A woman is not a fish, she is not 'the one who got away' she is a human being, with equal rights, who has her own feelings. And she needs someone who will really listen to her.
