its hard for me to forgive
By xoxo19
@xoxo19 (13)
Philippines
December 12, 2012 1:53am CST
It's really hard to forgive someone. Especially if what that person did is very unforgivable. Myself can't even admit that I can forgive someone easily and forget what he did. I keep on trying to forgive him but it seems like there's still a hatred in my heart. I don't want to open up what he did but, if you we're in my shoes right now,you'll understand that it's really hard him from what he did. It bothers me somehow and I keep asking myself questions like; "why can't you forgive him?" "if God can forgive why can't you?" Hopefully someday I can forgive him and forget everything he did.
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5 responses
@greenthumb018 (595)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
Forgiving is not something you can just tell yourself. The wound that it caused needs time to heal. You are human and it is natural to feel hatred on somebody that caused you pain. But it doesn't necessarily mean that you will feel like that your whole life. I can forgive somebody that caused me pain but not right away. And I don't tend to forget either. So I guess what you're feeling is natural.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Dec 12
It is really hard to forgive a person that we love most who might have hurt us. It is because we have trusted them with all our hearts and that they are the least person that we would think of hurting us. Just let the wound heal and someday, you will learn how to forgive him.
@grace147 (223)
• Philippines
17 Jan 13
hi xoxo19, to err is human, to forgive is divine and to forget is a saintly deed. Human as we are truly find it difficult to forgive and harder to forget. But one thing we must remember is that inner peace is important in living and vengeance is not the solution to ease the pain in your heart. Let go and let God repair the damage it cost on you. For if we carry uncessary buggage in our lives, it would only slow us down in our pursue towards greatness in life in both body and soul. Not to forgive in a long period of time is already over ruled with pride.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
12 Dec 12
it is very hard for all humans in general to forgive those who did bad to them but we have to try harder because we must forgive and forget. it is make you feel better inside and you will come out a better human being. you can do it.. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
@betty1989 (751)
• China
12 Dec 12
to forgive is to forget. Forgiveness is the best cure for you. If somebody hurts you and you cannot forgive him, that shows that you still care about him. One thing we need to learn is to forgive and let it go. Then, everything he did will not affect your feeling again. have a nice day.
