how do you maintain obstinence?

If you love him you will wait. My husband has been deployed to Kuwait since last August and I have no problem waiting for him. He means way to much to me for me to screw it up between us.

i'm in the philippines and my boyfriend's in sweden. we're in this 5th month of our relationship and i say, though far apart, the relationship's going stronger everyday. what do we do? we keep respect above all. we trust each other and our confidence level on our love is always high. we continuously communicate on texts, chats, emails and even regular (via-air-mail) mails. it's good to keep the love alive by extending efforts. long distance relationships are not that easy to maintain. it demands time. plus long distance relationships are expensive. but if it's all worth it, then, go for it!!! always remember that the person on the other end trusts you with all his/her heart. so, try and keep your love for each other growing everyday.

think about how you would feel if you found out he was using some other chick as a sustitute for you