not liking self at some point of your life .

There have been times in my life where I have been disappointed with my own actions, which left me thinking "what was I thinking?" I have always liked myself as I have a pretty healthy self esteem, but when life has gotten out of control, and I feel like I'm spiraling out of control, I will think "why on earth did I do that?" We are often our own worst critics, and that's where we need to change our thinking. Even though we've gone through these experiences, loving the wrong person, spending to much money or not paying attention to what we're doing doesn't mean we're bad people, it just means we had our head in the sand for a little while. Now it's time to take it out breathe, and remember that no matter how bad things get, we always, always have to be our own best friend. This alone will help us get through anything.

Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty-they merely move it from their faces into their hearts.

This is really confusing to understand what you are saying. Are you the person who sees a girl you care about who loves someone that doesn't get along with well? I think people find it hard to leave a relationship when they invest so much time and effort into it that they find it difficult to leave even if it is a toxic relationship.

Hello angelpink, The one thing about i didn't like about myself was when he quit his job years ago and he feels he can never go back. with his late unemployment situaion he's loosing anymore confidence of getting anymore job. I wonder, despite of the blessings of having a rental business and some flow of income coming. however, having a self and financially independent on things allows him to have a better social status of himself

Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well liking or disliking oneself is not in our hands, it is the circumstances that compels us to think such way. Nothing is good or bad but our thinking makes it so. I have also experienced many such situations where i have cursed myself but the next moment i have forgotten such things and have accepted the reality as it is. I think whatever the girl is doing is her own decision and whatever she will be doing will depend entirely on her. What say?

I have spent most of my life hating myself and suffering immensely because of it. I've learned that your body, mind and soul will believe whatever you tell yourself and accept it as truth. So tell yourself that you are beautiful, amazing, smart, talented, funny and that you deserve the very best in life. You will end up believing it... and better yet, the rest of the world will too!

At some point in our life we have all been dissatisfied - either with our appearance or the kind of person we are. If you are depressed and feeling low self-esteem, change the way you think and change the way you do some things. Listen to music you like, go out with some friends. Give yourself a lift by doing something good for a friend. There is a lot of things you can do to take you outside of yourself. Read up on depression. Read other people's experiences. Do not be too self-involved.