Mylot the place to run from my sadness.

what you have a problem that make me so sad?????

All the time. I come to mylot for that reason. And I see by your responses we aren't the only ones. Mylot is a pleasant distraction in an otherwise unpleasant life for me. If you're reading and responding there's no time to think of the problems/sorrows of your life. Reading of someone else's problem and trying to help them takes your mind away from your unhappy situation. I hope your problem has ended by now. It's sad for me to think of others being unhappy or having problems. And turning to God for help is always the best thing to do. I wish for better days for all of us.

hi Devilova yes I have used mylot a lot that way as first I was forced against my will to retire and that made me so sad, no job, no friends any more, mo pay checks'bu I had my lot then four years ago my son and I lived together in a two bedroom apt. He was laid off, we used up our joint savings so got behind on the rent. Were evicted and made homeless. I ended up here at Cold Crest retirement center paid for with my Social Security and SSi checks lest anyone get the idea I took a freebee as one mylotter insultingly suggested. that response was reported by me and deleted by admins.So 11 months later I got my computer and monitor from storage and have mylotted ever since. People here are myfriends and mylot is my haven from sadness too. So mylot is our go to place,you agree Devilova?

Hello Devilova. There are really times that we are experiencing sadness and downtimes. It is good thing that aside from talking and praying to God, we have something to redirect our attention. I too "escape" my sadness here in myLot especially when I am here at home. When I am here at home, I do mylotting all day after I have done all household chores.

I agree when we are sad some discussions acts as pain relief medicines. we get out of the sadness. some times when we are very much disturbed we cannot concentrate on any discussions and cannot even respond. But if we come across any fun discussions the we really feel good and our mood changes.

yes, I totally agree with you. Mylot is not only the site we earn, but also the place we can let go of our sadness. It is totally free to let all the bad things go. You just need not to care anybody. hope you feel well when you let go of your sadness here. have a nice day.

You have forgotten your problems because you made yourself busy reading and discussing others topics or you have been busy making your own topic and then responding the discussions given by other members.You would really forgot your problems,but with so much to think how to respond your topic you would surely find entertainment,and thereby forgot your problems.That is the essence of having so much to do,so keep up the busy things so that your problems would never hound you back.

Everyone has a problem. So, there is no need to be sad about it. Just take it easy.

I like MyLot, but not THAT much. Ha! I can never seem to run away from my problems. BUT, I do use MyLot on occasion to help get these problems off my chest and get second opinions on my problems and what I should do to approach them. Best of luck to you though. Glad that MyLot has made such a huge difference to you.

I think myLot really serves as a venue for whatever emotions we're having, be it sadness or happiness. It has become sort of an outlet and also a place to find support from our myLot friends. That's one of the better features of this site.

I do feel that way. Besides expressing my sadness out at here, I do express my anger here too.I let it out and share it with Mylotters and get their opinion on how should I react to the situation I have either in sad situation nor in anger situation. I'm glad my brother suggested me to join Mylot even though his point is gaining his own MyLot referrals. But I'm still glad that I'm able to be here to express what I felt and get people's opinion with my random situation. Once I express it out with words into a discussion here. I feel much better than keeping it to myself and crying over spilt milk. It is really a best place for us to express our feeling and get people's opinion about our situation. Enjoy MyLotting!

Hi, Sometimes, we feel too much pressure. We don't get on well with our friends, we don't do well in studies, we don't get compliments from teachers, our parents are too strict with us. With too much sadness here, how should we deal with it? I think the best way to overcome it is to find a thing to do and forget the thing which makes us sad. Yeah, you are right, mylot is a good place to spend your time and run away from your sadness. Sometimes you can even write down your sadness here in mylot, and many friends from all over the world will help you to lessen it. Thanks for sharing, and have a nice day!

Hi! Sometimes i do feel that way when i find no one by my side to share my pain or my feelings. Had i known of mylot before, there might be more posts from me wherein I would have shared whenever i felt bad. But, it's ok as we have to learn to move ahead in life. Take Care

Yes,i am too very interested in mylot and want to do mylotting as per my time.It's a good idea to do mylotting,if you are having sadness.It becomes very important for all of us to tackle our problems or situations and i think this is a very good platform to do so,becomes it provides an opportunity,a freedom to communicate with each other.Communication is a must for avoiding sadness and enjoying our lives.

Hi Dev, I tend to talk about my problems here and try to find some solution when I was join in here there was some friends here help me to run away from my reality we just talked something fun and funny no problems

When I'm truly sad, I can't even go online or do anything much; much less participating on myLot. I will just sit in my room and not do anything.

Yes I have before run to mylot to make me feel better. It doesn't always work but some times it does because you never know because some times there are people that have gone throw the same things and feel and understand the way you do and they know what to say to just make things a little bit better. I always say tomorrow will be better and then I just take a minute and look at my kids and it slowly makes the sadness goes away and I remember why I'm here on this planet for my children.

That is very true , I for one is doing same. If i am sad and no one whom to vent i run to Mylot. It pacifies my troubled heart and mind. It comforts me. It listens to all my angst , fear and anxieties. Seems it is my shock absorber. I hold no pretensions , i can be me and i can shout as loud as i can . Glad found Mylot !

how about share your problems here? if you don't mind though. so mylot won't be just a stress releaser for you but also your problem solver :)

Yes, myLot and the people here are accommodating. They help you get over bad experiences. That's why I really love myLot.