bit annoyed abt mom / myLot

December 14, 2012 3:54am CST

i feel bit annoyed abt mom many times she is in favor of my brother's family...But every time she had some financial difficulty she always telling me they had no money but if abt my brothers kids always gives in....I feel upset and jealous cos she is always in favor of giving gifts giving money to my brothers kids but for me its too much.She always complain abt how to budget their money in USA but once talking abt kids they give all... many times we had arguments abt this but still she is not listening... does your parents had some favoritism like this?...

1 response

hlfbldmom

@hlfbldmom (743)

• Philippines

14 Dec 12

Grand parents love their grand children so much more than their children so I can't blame your mum. It's not favoritism I guess its just that they love their grand children so much especially it's their first grand children right?. My mum is like that too she gave everything to her grand children. But your mum must think about the situation too, that their grand children got parents and that they have to slow down because if not the parents will not provide for their kids in the future they will depend everything to your mum.

@gilenie (190)

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14 Dec 12

very true my dear sis hlfbldmom, that's why i keep telling her that it must be enough, actually my brother was enjoying it so much cos in this situation he seems to be taking advantage of the situation.He should also take in to consideration that mom and dad had to save money for their medication since they are almost have to check up because f their health.