courting

But if you are in love with that girl and she is in love with you, it is all worth it. Even marriage is sacrifice but to look on it in a positive way, it is sacrificial love. It is serving and caring about the other person. And when the other person cares about you, then both of us will benefit far more than if you lived by yourselves. So courting, really isn't a sacrifice because the benefits are far greater.

i agree courting a girl is hard but worth it. because when you succesfully made the girl agree the next day will definitely be very sweet. though if you fail all will be lost. altough for a rose-colored life you should be willing to risk something. :)