right vs wrong
By mhaiXCs10s
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
Philippines
December 15, 2012 5:01am CST
this is the question... when you can say that wrong is right? and when can you say that right is wrong? isn't it complicated? well, a friend asks me this once... what if the love of your life is the wrong person for you? i told her that sometimes we fall in love for the one who we thought is not the right one but how can we say that that love is wrong if the feeling is right. this friend of mine is only 19 and she was into falling in love as always as it could and i don't know who is the man she was referring to although i have an idea. the man she was in love with is below the level of their status, in other words he is poor and the girl comes from not so rich but an above average. although he was poor, still he is responsible and hardworking.
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6 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Dec 12
If anyone would ask me: what if the love of your life is the wrong person for you? I would think of a child raper (since I have children) or a serial killer, someone who is already married. That would be the wrong person. Rich or poor, short or tall, skinny or big, black or white, pagan or christian, this all has nothing to do with love or being the wrong person. If your friend finds someone poorer as her the wrong person she is not loving that man at all. Since love is blind if it comes to that.
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@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
LOL... That is so cool! Why does the status takes place with them? Duh! I don't get this friend of mine too... Well, maybe she is just confused because she don't know if her family will approve this man for her... Anyways, I always advice her to search her heart for an answer.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
15 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i think we people often decide what is wrong and what is right and we do this very quickly. To be very honest, it is our conscience which takes this decision and we then stick to it.
I think love knows no boundaries and that is an example of your friend's relationship. I do not know how far their relationship will go but i would like u to ask your friend that she approached her boyfriend and asks him to do something that will ensure the security of their future.
What say?
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@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
They are not actually in boyfriend-girlfriend relationship... They are almost there but they couldn't because of some stupid thinking. I wish for their happiness really and I hope they get to their senses that a real love is not based with the status in life.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
15 Dec 12
Great post.. remember also some people think some things are wrong that others do not. its a way of life. We all make and have our own opinions on diff. things. Hope you are having a great weekend there. See you here soon......
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Yeah! It is only for the one perception to differentiate the right and the wrong... And mostly, the wrong we think about is the right thing.
@arnabroy16 (438)
• Howrah, India
16 Dec 12
I don't think it should be an issue in their love.If they love each other then they should not think about this middle class and lower class type of things.Love has no boundary they should talk to each other about this fact and start their relation...
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
I surely agree with you... Love has no boundaries. I hope they both realize it before it is too late.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
17 Dec 12
There is no right and wrong when it comes to love. but society dictates for the propriety on it. A married man and a single woman fall in love. An old woman and young man fall in love. A poor woman and a rich man fall in love. It is love it is a feeling, so there is no right and wrong, however, there is something not fitting in the situations. The question is .. does you friend really love him? Or it is just an infatuation because he is responsible and hardworking.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Well, I think she is in love because I see how happy she is everytime she is seeing this man. She likes the idea to attend a party if she will know first if this man will attend too. She gets irritated and her tantrums are overacting when she heard that this man is having fun with other girls that happens to be his co-workers... I'm not kinda sure actually but we (me and the other friends) are sensing it.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
19 Dec 12
ahh so they are not in the relationship yet (hehehe this is gossiping) 
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Yeah, they are not in a relationship. (this is really gossiping! LOL) But I wish them to realize this good thing between them because they both good looking and they compliment each other obviously. Their story is so cute and I am planning to write it...
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@StLouisMetroTutoring (678)
• St. Peters, Missouri
15 Dec 12
I think we fall in love with someone no matter the background. We love who we love. This could be someone with similar tastes and background, or it could be someone "wrong for us". We still love them. I think it's when we decide what to do with our love that everything else must come into play. I think it's wonderful we can fall in love with anybody, but there are also practical matters that must be considered when determining the further action. I can fall in love with a married man, but I must consider whether I should act on this or not. Loving someone doesn't mean we should do anything about it. Not doing anything is sometimes one of the greatest ways we can show our love.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
You are right there... Love needs to be practical sometimes. Gladly, he is not married. For me, there is no problem with their status but they are both minding it. I am truly concern with them because I care for them both, they are pushing themselves to have date with others but always seem to find ways to see each other.
