Feel lost

China
December 15, 2012 7:07am CST
For a long time, I feel lost. My aims is dim, I failed, My dreams are far from me. I have no motivations.
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6 responses
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
I think the worst thing to do when we feel kind of lost and unmotivated is to keep it to ourselves. We should seek out the company of our relatives and friends. They may be in a position to help us find our way back - motivate us to pursue what we want.
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• China
16 Dec 12
I agree with you, they are the most important people in our life.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I have felt like that too for a long time. I have no idea why but the economy makes me think it has something to do with that. Things are just so slow in selling online where I do alot of business. It is over whelming sometimes. There is no improvement in many areas of the world, we have disasters occuring with hurricanes and shootings. It is just a sad time in the world right now for many. I just hope we can all get back on our feet again and find ourselves again, if we are lost. I am hoping alot of things in my life will improve--with some kind of miracle. I will pray for you.
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• China
16 Dec 12
I am sorry that you have the same difficult time in life. Life becomes harder for us. But I hope we can do as you said that get back on our feet and find ourselves. Find out the value we live.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 Dec 12
I'm so sorry that you are having a difficult time. I hope that you will be able to have new motivations that will help you reach new goals. There are so many directions in life that we can go in. It is just hard to tell where and which way we want to go.
• China
16 Dec 12
Thank you. I believe I can find the directions again.
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• United States
17 Dec 12
I hope that you find the way you would like to go and that brings you happiness. We are often unsure which direction we will be happy with. But when we are able to figure that part it is a big step in the right direction. It's better to keep moving than to be at a stand still.
• India
16 Dec 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this.. Face every situation in life with your confidence, we never lost our hope. Every one is having a lot of skills and powers lies with in us. We must find our talents and shine in our field, if we achieved some thing in our life, no one thinks that we are unworthy. Every one in this world is born with some cause, no one is unworthy and useless. We all have some work and try our maximum to do it properly, if someone thinks that we are unworthy, we show that we have work and have the ability to do our work properly. Don't feel a lot and lose your confident if you face this kind of criticism. Just increase your creativity and do a good thing with your ability. This kind of situation must encourage you, never dishearten you. Don't think nobody is caring at you and you are alone. Give your care and affection to others to get the same from them. Surely failures are the stepping stones for success. Most of us give up our try after getting a failure, but this attitude is wrong. We must rectify our mistake which we had done in our previous attempt and once again try the process. Failures give experience to us and we must learn a lot of things from our failure, if we rectify our faults and do our work properly, we will get success in our life. In this way failure is thestepping stone for the success. We only realize our faults and mistakes after getting the failure, so this kind of failures are our teachers and teach a lesson to us in this way they are the stepping stone. It is very hard to get success with a single try, we must be very lucky enough to get it easily, but if we get success after a long journey, we will know about the success value very well and get a lot of excitement while achieving our target. We have the ability to avoid failures with our preparation. We must prepare first before doing anything. Starting a process with out preparation will lead in to failure. If we did our exams without reading, we don't have the ability to pass in it, surely we will fail in the exam by our fault. The real fault lies in the lack of preparation. If you prepared well you have the ability to do your work well. Anything without a proper idea and preparation will lead in to failure, in other words, if you fail to prepare, you are preparing to fail. So first of all prepare your self to face the thing before doing anything in your life. Practice is very important for every thing, doing a thing without a proper practice never give success as well as benefits to you. Hard work and efforts are very much important for preparation. Do you work with your full interest, plan and prepare a lot before doing the thing, you will get success in your life. Real success lies in our preparation, practice and efforts.
• China
16 Dec 12
Thank you very much for your sincere suggestions. I used to be passive, I dare not to voice my opinions. I depend on others a lot. I am so afraid of failure that I just couldn't step forward. Even if I am prepared, I am afraid that others outdo me and I just withdraw. I dislike my disadvantages, but I have no power to change it. Whenever I decide to make a difference, something always hold me back. I know I just find resons to forgive myself, I should take actions to make a change. I will take your advice to get myself prepared and have faith in myself. I really appreciate your useful advice. O(n_n)O~
@meowchie (992)
• Philippines
15 Dec 12
You just have to look around and realize you are not leaving for yourself alone. You have family and friends and your presence sure can bring happiness and hope to them. Get your feet back on the ground. You can always seek for your parent's help. They will surely listen and guide you. Also keep the Faith in God! :) You can do better if you know what you want in life so ask for God's plan for you.
• China
16 Dec 12
You are right. I still have my family and friends. They are all around me and give me lots of help, I shouldn't feel failed any more. I must cheer up and live up for them.
• Indonesia
16 Dec 12
I'm sorry to hear you have such difficulty, I am experiencing what you feel right now. Most of the times we go on comparing ourselves with others.This is a foolish act.All of us are endowed with certain unique qualities.Just be yourself.Respect yourself.At times you should talk to yourself.Self-talk is the best tool to clear your vision. You can change up your routine. Stop doing which you have been doing for quite a long time;instead start doing something new. It could be anything i.e.change your habit of getting up late in the morning. The habit of getting up early in the morning will definitely give you something to cherish.
• China
16 Dec 12
Yea, sometimes I learn to talk to myself. I sing to myself. I like singing Some like you in particular. After I sing, I feel life still has much fun and happiness.