In this day and age is it worth it to get married?

Very young indeed. Life is a cycle. Always remember that sometimes your up, sometimes your down never expect to have a steady place there's none. Unfaithfulness in one relationship sometimes caused by both individual, both husband and wife are responsible in what is happening. You have to be a fair thinker, never jump into conclusion. For me, one can commit mistake without you knowing that you are the one pushing him to do it. Anyway, as I said you're young, don't lose hope there are plenty of good man somewhere you just have to be careful in choosing the right one 'coz you have children. If you will enter into another relationship be sure that the guy will accept your kids and love them as his own. Pray hard for this and things will happen when you believe. Good luck!

marriage is just a paper. what is important is that you do love and care about each other. that you do accept everything about your partner. the best and even the worst of him. In my past and present relationship, i have learned that we should not look into the bad side of relationship. you must look into the brighter side of it. because there will always be bad but when love is true it endures. one thing we should realize, we cannot change others but we can set our standards. its not all about bad things, its about deciding to stay with him all through the days. after all, its a decision. to be happy or not??? and definitely MARRIAGE DOESNT DEFINE OUR HAPPINESS

Being a lawyer, i have seen many cases like this and i have read your views also, if the man has not abused you physically, then i think the man is not insane. Its not only his fault , somewhere you would also be at fault. But what is over, is over. Now lets talk about the situation at hands. As you said, that you know some men who are interested in you. I would suggest that look out for that man who has kids too. So that in future he may not misbehave or misuse your kids.

hi, there are many people out there who still get marry someone even their age is above 30's or 40's because now a days people don't depend upon the age of their partner now, because love is the most reason why they marry each other,age is regardless in love.

only if you love them. its worth it. Worth alot if they are the right person for you. Some get married for all the wrong reasons.

Always remember that when we already have our kids, this life is no longer about us alone now. As you have said you have your kids already. I once then decided to get separated from the father of my two kids. but one day, the teacher of my daughter talked to me. She said that my kid talks to her so emotionally. At 7 I didnt realized she would be that matured to talk about being unhappy and harboring hatred to an unidentified figure. She doesnt know whom to blame. but she felt that she is not happy and even confided to a teacher who is not a member of her family. Before i thought she is so strong. that brings me a sharp hit in my heart. after that incident that is the point in time that i finally know that my life is no longer mine. My life is my children. And to them I would sacrifice even myself, just to make them happy. I hate the father so much even to the highest level. But for my kids we are now living together again. Setting aside the glitches of past bad memories

Not all the time you experience unsuccessful relationship. You might be find someone who really cares and love you even in that situation. Do not be upset from previous relationship that you experience before. There is still hope...because having someone in life is a great thing.

Most definitely. I believe that for everyone on Earth, there is one person that you're meant to be with forever, for eternity. And if you've found that person, nobody else would matter and therefore the issue of infidelity will not even come up. Family life is important. And having someone to love and who will love you back every day of your life is the best thing even if you don't have much in terms of wealth.

I think that you are only saying that coz you have not yet found the right person for you. But I guess,once you meet the perfect person for you, you would readily think of tying the knot. It is still worth and will always be worth marrying the person that you choose to spend your life with. Life is a gamble. We just need to learn how to play it.

No friend we cant say life is short or long so your child is small and your age is also not more so you should search the partner and get remarry. Not necessary if one men was bad means all will bad.

I understand what you mean. I feel the same way. My husband and I have been having countless problems in our marriage. I'm pretty sure that we will get separated/divorce etc. I know that I want a truly happy relationship but it is hard for so many people to have that. I know that I don't want to go through what I'm going through now again. I hope that when you are ready you are able to meet a person who is mature and loving. Someone who will treat you and your family right. Have a good evening.

There are people who are really fortunate when it comes to love that they really found the person that they can be with for the rest of their lives. It may be hard to trust but love is a gamble. You never know if it will work or not. I have friends who are really happy with their married life. And I also have friend who are really kind but unfortunate on their love lives. So I guess it will depend if you will find the right person that can love you and your kids no matter what.

Honestly these things still do exist , but it is how patient you are going to be. You see people that are unhappy in relationships are the ones that didn't make it further than the "first time butterflies". In every relationship the sweetest part of the relationship is when you both don't know much about each other and you are just in the process of getting to know each other. Firstly do not expect a man to complete you if you do you will become a part of the unhealthy relationship group. No one on this earth will make you happy. You have to seek God and love yourself first and not expect a man to make you happy. There are good men out there you just have to figure out which one is the right one for you. Remember the "Real Relationship starts after the early first time heat burns out. Peace