can anybody tell what's the best way to convince a guy to go shopping with me?
By ciarasouid
@ciarasouid (80)
December 15, 2012 11:15pm CST
I can't convince my boyfriend to go shopping with me, he says that he doesn't like it but I really want to take him with me, please help!!
3 responses
@StLouisMetroTutoring (678)
• St. Peters, Missouri
16 Dec 12
Most men tend to prefer shopping with a purpose. The men I've met don't like to go shopping hours on end for no real purpose other than to go shopping. Women often do enjoy this activity. If you really want him to come along, you need to give him a reason to come along. It might be to get something for him or because someone will be there he wants to see that he wouldn't normally or because you're going to do something afterwards that he really wants to do. Or many other possibilities. You need to create a specific reason that would interest him. Because you want to or because it will be fun or because you will be there aren't reasons for him. If you expandded on the reason that you will be there and tell him how it will benefit him, it might work. I'm not saying men are stupid or anything else. What I'm saying is true for anyone. If someone is disinclined to do something, you need to counter it with good reasons they would want to do it. Not reasons that would entice you, but with reasons that are good to them.
@ciarasouid (80)
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16 Dec 12
Well thank you for your help,men are difficult if they say no to something cause don't actually fell like doing it I understand that but if I'm dedicated to him and doing all I can to make him happy normally he should do the same but men are selfish the only thing that they really think about is them selves and there own comfort
@Ashokraghute (158)
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16 Dec 12
Its very simple. mostly boys are fan of latest cellphones. So tell him will you pl accompany me to select latest cellphone. Then he will surely come with you for shopping.
@ciarasouid (80)
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16 Dec 12
Hello and thank you for commenting,I've tried that and it didn't work out, but we're going though cause a friend of him is coming with us I guy he doesn't like girls shopping
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Dec 12
Hello ciarasouid. When I am free, I always go shopping together with my family in the big mall and we can stay there walking between racks and shelves for items that interest us for more than one hour or two. Shopping is fun though it takes time. If one shows no interest in shopping around, it could be a little bit hard for him to, but anyway, happy shopping. Have a good day.
@ciarasouid (80)
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16 Dec 12
Thank you for commenting,I finally been able to convince him and we're going tomorrow,it was a miracle,I went for coffee with him and his friends and when I brought this topic he didn't really like it but when his friend requested to come with us if we're going and they can do shopping also, he immediately agreed I guess guys don't like to shop with girls.