i tends to go to extremes recently.

i think there is nothing wrong with you. there is a point in our lives where we want to prove our importance and niche in this world. i think you are in that point. if you tend to go to the extremes, because you want to show that you exist and that your idea and participation is important. but soon, it will pass. what is wrong is if you continue to go to the extremes all your life.