how do i survive in a long distance love affair?

Philippines
September 5, 2006 2:37am CST
my bf is a seaman by profession, and this is the first time that we parted for a very long time, i do trust him but a lot of people telling me that I shuold not give my all trust in him because of the saying "In Every port, REport" IN EVERY PLACE "replace".. i do love him so much.. i really need someone experienced people who can give me advice to help me to have an abstinence..
2 responses
• United States
5 Sep 06
Well like I told you before mine is deployed. i knew his career when i was dating him and I accepted the consequences of the possibly of him being deployed for a year to 18 months at any time. So I knew what I was getting into. If you can't handle his career be fair to him and tell him. Don't cheat on him when he is away when he thinks everything is fine at home. And you need to trust in him. Don't listen to what other people say about what goes on. Just tell them that you trust your bf
• Nigeria
27 Nov 06
that bad,it show is not caring,any i love to marry ,am from africa nigeria,i want marry some from south korea.
@krishna183 (2284)
• India
5 Sep 06
you need to trust your boy friend and most importantly be faithful to him with all your heart and mind .. if u truly love him the very thought of him will make you feel that hes right next to you and just knowing that hes happy and good will give u the satisfaction and happiness that you need .. do keep in touch as much as possible and do tell him from time to time that you really miss him .. its not very difficult for misunderstandings to creep in between .. so be truthful , open and clear with him always