Small town drama; just get over it

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Now I live in a small area, my town of about 500 people, and I work in surrounding towns. I grew up in this area, my parents, and grandparents were born and raised in this area. I am related to 95% of the population,and majority of the rest knows me, or someone related to me. So when someone says something about me, usually they are saying it to a cousin. It's rather funny actually. Now about a year or more (when I worked at my last job which I got fired August 2011), I was interested in this guy who came into my work. We flirted, he never made a move, and I would say things and never jumped at it. He got his coworkers then to ask me, or hint that he liked me. A feww months later, he ignored me, and literally would be driving down the road and do a complete u turn, and floor it the other way. Now I am not some crazy stalker and ignored him finding out (seeing as everyone and their mothers know of me), that he was dating some other girl. End of it for me, I ignored him and went on my way. Behind my back a coworker, had sent this guy a couple facebook messages (I didnt know seriously), and well I'm sure it made me look desperate, or whatever, but I ignored it all, as I really could care a less, I sort of laugh at it actually. So one night I went to a bar with an old coworker, and bumped into a guy this guy new. We laughted over,it, and clearly drunk, he told me to send him a Facebook message, just saying sorry about this lady I work with, and basicaally I know he has a girlfriend, and I am done. I cant recall exactly what I wrote, but the only reason I knew I sent it was I had opened facebook on my cellphone to that the next morning (smack in the face doh). Now that was awhile back when I still worked at my old job in 2011. He is still dating this girl, she has been going around for almost a year talking sh*t about me. She obviously has issues, she going around saying she is going the beat my face in, and just saying things that clearly arnt true. Of course she said it to my relatives, which is pretty funny. I ignored her, just shows how she is insecure, jealous, and trust issues (if she cant trust her boyfriend). I see this guy about once a week, I just stick my nose up and pretend like I don't see him. He waves, slows down while driving, tries getting my attention. He came into my work back in September at the pet store, with his girlfriend. He obviously wasnt happy, I just ignored him and pretended like I didnt know him and serve them like any other customers as I was there by myself and could not serve them He then came in yesterday into my work, with his girlfriend. I told my coworker I was not serving them, so she did. She was telling me, they dont look happy at all. She was yelling at him, he was all p*ssy. Meanwhile, she said that he was looking around, and asked where I was, if I walked by serviing someone else he would stare at me. I chuckled at this, he made his decision live with it now. Now everyone and their mothers are saying to me, they are back gossiping about me. It's rather funny, I am not getting in the middle of some drama relationship, and I want a man not some coward, who cant tell his girlfriend he wants out, and isnt happy. Meanwhile, his girlfriend is in complete denial, and blaming me for her issues, and her failure relationship. It's funny what I hear, what a small town thing.