i still missed him
By ungu89
@ungu89 (1999)
Malaysia
December 17, 2012 10:03pm CST
December is his birthday, i really missed him.
i was planning big surprise for him, unfortunately, he was planning too, that way bigger than me.
there is nothing he had to me. he just choose other.
i was so sad about him.
i just could said, if that what you want, i accept it.
i never try to save our relation.
it just for me, if u already said u have choose other than me.
why i bother to begged you for your love.
i rather choose to go seeing u with other.
today, i was so hurt to see that u will get married to her.
i don't know what u see in her. maybe she was way to good compare to me.
this is the best for both of us.
* i just missed him, its already more than 3 years i think.
even i already throw all the thing i had for him. but still the memory i cannot throw it away
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7 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
18 Dec 12
5 Years ago in October I left my ex, I don't miss my ex one bit, however also 5 years ago I left my beautiful cat Zeus, I miss him like crazy. Is it strange to miss a cat more than a human? I have a picture up of him to remind me every day that he was so precious too me, I will never ever forget him for the rest of my life, I couldn't have another cat to replace him. Time is a great healer and you heal each day, and the memory we have of loved ones will fade, but will never go away totally as long as we need them.
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
What a declaration of the missing feeling! You said it is already 3 years and he is getting married now. You said that you let him go for some reasons... He is really so much lucky that he'd been part of your life and that you still missing him after all what happened. Love brought you this way. You sacrificed your love and for some point maybe you are still loving him but those are part of the ironies of life. Soon you will find your happiness and surely you will never miss him anymore... Love begets love.
@ungu89 (1999)
• Malaysia
18 Dec 12
i think the best ways to forget love in with love too.
i stop looking because i don't want to get hurt again, everytime i try, its always end badly.
is that because i'm not into it or what. i don't know.
i just hope he will be happy.
i still waiting.
for others, that maybe will be the right one for me
@mhaiXCs10s (619)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
Well it is true... The easiest way to forget the love that hurts you is to fall in love again. But the idea of falling in love is different from real love. You are right there not to pursue on dating because real love is not to pursue for it is to be wait and feel without exemption. I know that a good person like you will find a love that is so true.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
So sorry to hear your sad story. But I really think you should start moving already since you said it is 3 years already. I think that is way too long for you to still miss him at this point in time. You deserve to be happy as well and continuing to miss him will just slow you down further ahead.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
19 Dec 12
Well sometimes finding a replacement is not the answer to your real problems. The thing is you should start loving yourself first and finding yourself first before finding another partner. I think for as long as you keep him in your heart and still misses him just means that you have not gotten over him yet.
Three years I think is enough time for you to move on with your life. A life without him would be better.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
3 years is good enough to mourn for a lost love.
I admire your love, I know you love him that much and that's the reason why until you are living with his past.
Wake up girl, don't waste your time, it's time for you to be happy too.
Open your heart and let love in.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
19 Dec 12
I have to guess that the relationship that you had with him was the first serious relationship that you had in your life. If that is the case, I have to tell you that more than likely you will never get over him even though the pain will continue to subside with time.
For me, it's been 13 years (almost 14) since I was in my first serious relationship and I have to admit that there are still times that I think about the what-ifs.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
20 Dec 12
Hi friend, sad to hear about this, your topic clearly shows how much you love him. He is unlucky to have a nice girl like you. Don't worry. It is really hard to come out from the memories if we really love our beloved person a lot, but we must divert our self and come out from the thoughts. Try your maximum to forget him
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
18 Dec 12
Indeed it is really hard to forget the memories in the past, but as you said it's already 3 years now, you should move on. that is life accept the truth that all of those memories are now gone and will never come into reality again. Just face the life without him and in time you will also find the one who is right for you.
yes, i know i should move on now.
maybe it just came when i was thinking nothing, it just trigger that memory again