She died this morning
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
December 18, 2012 1:46pm CST
My biolgical aunt went to the hospital in Toronto, her Mom (my biological aunt was in a different hospital with a stroke).
Her sister went down, and her wishes in her will was to be taken off life support.
They took her off yesterday, she lived overnight, and died this morning (she was still in a coma).
The wake will be next week hopefully, but there wont be a funeral. The hospital discharged her Mother to go say her good byes.
My aunts children, refuse to come down, my sister and I even offered to drive up north and bring them down here for the wake. About a week before she died her daughter stopped talking to her, and was being a real biatch. She is my younger brother age, and well that's her choice not to come down but she can live with the regret, we at least offered.
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@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
18 Dec 12
Sorry to hear that she has passed but atleast she is not suffering anymore. That's rude her family is not coming down to say their last goodbyes but your right they will regret it later on.
@marguicha (223107)
• Chile
18 Dec 12
I am sorry for your loss. I think, after what you tell us, that the greatest loss will be the loss your cousin will have when she realises that she was a b*tch and that there`s no going back as it`s too late
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 Dec 12
That's what happens when you are nasty. When you need your family around at the time you breathe your last, they aren't there. At least, you were there. My sympathies for your loss.
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
19 Dec 12
Her son, didn't want to move so he went and lived with his father. His father filled his mind with crap, and now refuses to let her son come to the wake. Her daughter is very immature, and I think she will regret it all. She dropped her entire life, for her boyfriend, she didn't help her Mother move, nor when she was sick help her care for her, because her boyfriend was more important she said this is why she is not coming to the wake, because she has to spend time with her boyfriend who has been in college, and he has been so busy. She has disowned all the family for her boyfriend, and well everyone has moved on, she is on her own, her own grandmother said this as well.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
20 Dec 12
Oh she will regret it later on, maybe not for the next few years, but when she hears of family reunions. Oh and the father sounds like a bitter old man. I would not be surprised that in years later, her son will start to hate his father for what he has done.
I do think family should stick together and it is a shame that those who wanted to be at the wake are prevented from doing so. I can understand if they are prevented from doing so but if they make their own choice, that is wrong.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
19 Dec 12
I do not know how you are taking this but I believe everyone here including me are offering our sincere condolences for your aunt's departure and wishing you well.
I must admit that I cannot understand the insensitivity from the other family members. This is rather shocking and first time for me, you know? Are they really that awful? I hope you are not at the receiving end of their brunt.
Wow!
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Dec 12
Sound real sad , I a sorry to hear about that . I hope you are all ok , and I its sad that her own children did not come down to the see her even after you and your sister offered to drive them .
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
19 Dec 12
I feel so sorry to hear that,wish your aunt will rest in peace.
@BarBaraPrz (47346)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Dec 12
Sorry for your loss.
How is your grandmother doing?
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
18 Dec 12
sorry to here that.. its hard to lose anyone, especially at xmas time. Your thoughts are with me here. Take care dear.
@stevennewswag15 (7)
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18 Dec 12
I am really sorry to hear that but what you can do is to give them your support. Family is the best thing that ever happen in life.
