have you ever cheated on your partner on a relationship?

First, I don't understand why people cheat their partners. It's just ugly and shows their lack of control over themselves.

I have never cheated on my partner. I'm afraid of getting cheated either so I'm not doing it with my partner. If a person cheated, it shows that the person lacked self discipline or his/her love for his/her partner is not 100%. When a person did something like that and the person is committed, it means that the person is not thinking what his/her partner will feel.

I have never cheated on any of my ex boyfriends. For me, a cheater is always a cheater. And what makes me so mad, is when the cheaters have the nerve to say they love you. Really? How can you love somebody if they are having a hard time keeping it in their pants. To me, the cheaters will never change and they are not capable of loving anybody. I do know that no relationship is forever, but if some people feel their parents are not fun, is always better to walk out and be honest, before jumping into bed with someone.

I dont cheat at all because I am loyal as long as we didnt break up. Someone cheated on me though.

no i would not do that and i hate to do that because it is a bad thing and it is kind of cheating ideally annoying people and feeling bad at the end of the day

I don't think a person in the right mind would want to cheat on their partner on purpose. That's just not right. Although there are some situations where in people feel insecure about themselves and become discontented with the relationship they are already in. It may seem unfair, and we cannot stop people from doing it, but know that it isn't something we all want to do.

I have been in a relationship like this, and personally this is what Broke us up, and even though I still cared about the man I was with, I knew it was best to move on, as he was not truly committed to just me. This is wrong in any case and should never be accepted. What makes someone think a cheater will ever change?

No, i have never done this, i have never done anything like this that would cause so much pain on someone, and especially not on someone that i love...

It has never happened in my life, but I have seen in many friend's life, especially their wives have cheated

They cheat because they are not serious with their partners, they are weak to temptations, they don't truly love their partners, they are not ready for commitment and so on. There's no excuse for cheating. If they find someone else they love more they should properly tell their previous partner about it and confront the issue, not sneak around it. Dishonest people are so... abysmal! It is very possible that a person who has cheated on us once would do it again. But some miraculously will keep to their word and not do it again. I won't forgive a person who would cheat on me. If he doesn't want me any more he could just say so at least he is honest and convicted. Cheat on me and you are just like any creep out there.

I've never cheated. It doesn't seem natural to me. I've known others that have. They all seem to have a general mentality that the reason they cheat is because of something their mate did or won't do. In their minds, they don't accept any amount of blame. This mentality lasts. It's not something that happens one time and then goes away. They feel they should get whatever it is that they want and if their mate isn't giving it to them, it's their right to get it somewhere else. I do believe there are some that cheat that don't have this mentality, that it's more of a one-time passion thing, but I've never met them. For this type, it would seem all the right circumstances would have to be in place before the person cheats. But again, I've never met anyone like this, so I don't really know if this person even exists. If my mate cheated, I would be devastated. It would change the way I saw my mate. I would never be able to think of him the same way again. But that's not forgiveness. I would eventually, after the immediate pain was over, be able to forgive. But I know I would never forget. For me, the relationship would be over.

yes, unfortunately, i had been cheated by my ex bf twice and what hurt most is he even made the girl pregnant. watta hell.

i never cheated with my husband, when we get married we love each other, and now we have a 5months old baby, it was the part of our love, maybe they cheated on their partner because they are not happy in their company, the company that other person, they wanted.

I will simply never forgive somebody who will cheat me,no mater once or twice.Cheaters have the natural tendency to cheat every time, so never think that they will never let you down again.Relationships are rested on trust and faith, the two delicate threads.If one of it is broken down stability of the relationship will be destroyed.If you cheat somebody once he/she will lose faith on you and next time if you tell the truth also it is not going to be accepted by your partner easily and there will be an element of suspicion.

hi alilin the only "relationship I ev er had was "marriage" and me and my mate meant every one of the wedding vows and we both l ived thel for 33 years. I never cheated on my mate nor did he cheat on me. I think cheaters will usually cheat again and agin as its sort of born into them.No I would not forgive a cheater as I committed myself to the marriage and expected my husband to do the same. A situation like that wold never arise with me as I demanded and received respect,love and honesty and above all trust. with these people can stay happily married forever.