do you know your father?

@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
December 20, 2012 12:40am CST
many babies born without knowing her/his father and many reason why this thing happen what do you think if a child never knew his father or his parents? what is the non benefit of it?
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6 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
20 Dec 12
I am glad I know my father and that I have a father in our family. Sometimes if a person has no father, depending on his guardian's upbringing, they would seem to feel incomplete or lost. Some can develop hatred over their real parents who wasn't there as they're growing up, or jealousy towards others who has their own father. However, there are still some who grew up without parents but such situation inspires them to achieve their goals in life in order to have a good life with the hopes of building their own whole family in the future.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 12
Hi En, Some kids can stand with their head high without father and some just lost direction and fell to wrong world I am glad you have a good father I have a father but he just careless with me how ever I still respect him
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
22 Dec 12
oh that's sad to know. well all you can do is just accept him and still love him because he still is your father. It's great to know that your respect in him is still there despite feeling he care less for you.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 12
I try my best to respect him even I have to pretend when I do that Hope he will realize someday that kids are born to be loved not to be abandoned
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
20 Dec 12
I am very thankful to God that He gave me a very good father. He is my role model and I respect him a lot. And as far as I'm concerned, he is the greatest father on Earth. Father plays the most important role in the family supposedly. Children without father or those that never saw or at least met their father have the tendency to be rebellious and poor discipline. I'm not saying mothers do not have the ability to handle their kids but most kids, especially boys, tend not to listen to their mothers, so...
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 12
Hi Dev, Wow..you are so lucky maybe you are right, my brother is rebellious because my mother was a single parent. Hope every father know his important role in the family so he can be more responsbility
@devonavis (1854)
• Greece
5 Jan 13
Thank you. I'm really lucky in terms of family. I hope your brother will realize that being rebellious will not help. Your mother must be having a hard time, she need your help. Fathers know their responsibilities but they just don't know how to do it. So sad.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
I am very grateful, I was born from an intact family. And until now, my dad is still there. I am very grateful, I'm know with my father. I'm sorry, to all who do not know their fathers. Hopefully, they can live well, even though they can not know their fathers.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 12
there is a dangerous of not knowing our own father we never know where we have our siblings if someday god meet them each other and in love that is definitely dangerous they might do incest
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• India
22 Dec 12
Parents are the ones plays an important role in developing and shaping them. As we look in our life parents are the one who took important decisions in our life. They are the ones who decides everything in your life including education,lifestyle and other things. A child with no parents will lack the knowledge to deal the things and will go in wrong paths. So a parent plays an important role in each them life.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
25 Dec 12
Hi Wonder do you have such experience of how difficult a single mother raise their kids?
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
20 Dec 12
yes of course i know my father. Both parents are important for the children. Each have their role in child upbringing. And they cannot be a substitute for one another. They can only compliment.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 12
That is true prashu we complete each other when one parents dismiss, kids is the one who have to feel the imperfectness
@vinay100 (24)
• India
20 Dec 12
a GREAT THINKER has said that ' I was not given a chance to choose my parents'. Its true in this case, when one is not given a chance to choose, and when one cannot help the matter, concern, frustration arising from the same should also be kept away.Thats how One can keep living peacefully.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
20 Dec 12
you have not answer the question so do you know your father?