I am really Shy when it comes to Talking with girls

Pakistan
December 20, 2012 3:02am CST
I have a real problem when it comes to talking with girls. I dont know what happens to me. During my school life many girls talked to me but i could not reply them as they wanted.My friends call me Shy of girls. They do talk with girls with a lots of confidence but i cant help my self . I prommise i do not do this intentionally. This has become a real problem to me.Has any one got a serious advice which can help me out. People say that due to this problem i can really suffer in future. Is it so?
2 responses
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
21 Dec 12
Only you who can help yourself.. just feel comfortable talking with girls.. treat them as your friend.. girls are easy to be with so don't be shy most of the girls are friendly enough to have conversation to you.. but if you feel you are hopeless in this matter I suggest that you can have an appointment with a psychologist that can help you professionaly regarding your problem..
• Pakistan
21 Dec 12
Thanks for your suggestion. Yes i am trying now to speak with girls who i knew in my school time. May be it will help.
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
20 Dec 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well i can understand your situation and i think many guys have this kind of problem so u need not to worry about this thing. In fact from now onwards u try to get some changes in yourself and start talking to few girls that u know like your old school mates or your neighbors. From their on after getting the confidence u can overcome this fear. There is absolutely no need to get worried about, try and i know u will succeed. What say?